Leaders and employees, parents and children all face a common problem in work and study: pressure and motivation. We often think that there is no motivation without pressure, so we tend to exert pressure to push others forward. However, excessive stress will only lead to anxiety and conflict, making people feel tired and helpless. So how do we solve this problem?

Guide rather than force

Educating children is like parking sideways. Sometimes we need to take a step back and start from children's interests and replace coercion and pressure with guidance and encouragement. By sharing knowledge and experience with children, we can become their guides and partners, not just demanders and punishers.

Positive excitation

Let's follow Zheng's father's example. He didn't directly ask Zheng to write, but he stimulated Zheng's interest in writing by sharing his reading experience and views on literature. This positive motivation makes children change from passive acceptance to active pursuit, and finally realize their dreams.

Change the way of education

In order to help children grow up better, we should learn to change the way of education and turn pressure into tension and thrust. Let's feel the needs of children together and guide them to explore the world with wisdom. Family education is a subject that needs our careful study. Let's work together to be better parents!