The author believes that coordinated and orderly exercise is actually a rest. Just like our hearts and lungs. As far as human function is concerned, if muscles are not allowed to exercise, the natural motor nerve impulses of muscles will be eliminated, which not only makes muscles tired, but also means muscle degeneration. Human beings belong to intelligent creatures. The more wisdom he uses in sports, the more he can keep calm.
When the child moves in disorder and fragmentation, the nerve power is in a state of tension, and there is no rest and quiet; On the other hand, through the wisdom movement, the children's nerve strength will continue to grow and expand, and the children will have a real sense of satisfaction and pride in conquering themselves.
The child's self-development is her real and almost only happiness. Adults can't understand children, because adults judge children by their own standards. Adults think that children's desire lies in getting something in kind and are willing to help them. This is just self-love. Adults have completely forgotten what they were thinking when they were young, and they have not put themselves in the children's shoes.
Children's Home's method of educating children can make them follow the natural way of self-development.
For children, learning something is just the beginning. When children understand the meaning of an exercise, they will be happy to repeat it over and over again, with obvious satisfaction. Children are happy to do that kind of action, because it can develop their own spiritual activities, which is the real growth.
The practice of children's life development consists of repetition, not just the mastery of concepts. When children reach the stage of repetition, they embark on the road of self-development. The external sign of this state is that children begin to be self-disciplined.
This phenomenon does not happen often, and the same exercise cannot be repeated by children of all ages. It is carried out according to specific needs, involving experimental methods for children's education and providing exercises suitable for children's development needs. If a child's age exceeds a certain demand, he can't get the best chance to develop himself.
Adults often say that children are impatient, but in fact it is because children are impatient. It is a sign of impatience to let children follow different time rules from adults. Impatience and despotism have done harm to children. In fact, children are very patient and docile.
In the eyes of ordinary people, children seem to improve their feelings and learn how to write and read by learning the elegance and accuracy of movements, but more profoundly, children are also learning how to be their own masters and how to become a quick-thinking and strong-willed person.
The development of children is perfect. During this period, children permanently acquire the ability to perform certain operations. Before that, there were three stages of development-
The first stage: the subconscious stage.
In the eyes of children, order creates itself in disorder through a mysterious inner impulse, which is manifested as an external behavior result, and does not belong to the field of consciousness, so it cannot be repeated at will.
The second stage: the consciousness stage
There are some conscious behaviors that appear in the process of the establishment and development of behavioral actions.
The third stage: will can guide and produce action.
So that children can respond to other people's orders.
Obedience follows the same order-
The first stage: the stage of mental confusion.
Children don't obey anything and people, as if they are mentally deaf, and they can't listen to any orders.
The second stage: the child is willing to obey.
Children seem to understand orders and can respond, but this is not the case. At least they are not always successful in understanding and responding. Children's responses are not rapid and they are not happy when they are executed.
The third stage: children respond quickly to obedience and are full of enthusiasm.
Children are becoming more and more skilled in practice and are proud of knowing how to pay.
At this stage, the child is very willing to obey, as long as he is interested in even the slightest request, he will immediately execute it, so that he can get rid of the loneliness of life, enter the spiritual world of others through obeying this behavior, and master the team spirit of human nature.
Children's growing minds change from chaos to order, just like "separation of day and night", which leads to individual emotions and spirits.
In the hearts of children, there are not only what they have gained through their own efforts, but also gifts in spiritual life: kindness, love and incomparable love for justice. These talents exude the true direction of children's hearts and bear the "spiritual fruits" promised by Sao Paulo-love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, loyalty and meekness.
These children are virtuous and have exercised their patience through repeated exercises. I exercised my patience when obeying other people's orders; In the peaceful coexistence without jealousy and competition with others, the goodness of human nature has been tempered.
They do good deeds with a happy and peaceful mind. Children show amazing diligence, but they don't show pride in their justice. They did not regard this moral gain as their sense of superiority. They embark on the road of honesty only because it is the only way to realize real self-development and learning, and they enjoy the simple hearts and peaceful and lovely fruits they have gained along the way.
This is really an enviable state. How many people will never reach this level in their whole lives?
An indirect form of discipline, in which children organize "work" and freedom reasonably, rather than teachers' criticism and preaching.
Chapter 22 Let children become excellent self.
Children's thirst for knowledge in games shows that they are the true descendants of humanistic spirit. Children's instinctive love for knowledge is the best evidence, and children are often misunderstood-they are always considered to be interested in meaningless games and games without any thoughts.
Despise those who give children stupid toys-this is a material world, and children are destroyed by a bad rule and killed by wisdom.
Early childhood education should follow the dual development of children's body and mind.
From the early childhood education, we can see that children's spirit also has its own essence. It is the strength of the leader's life to improve himself in spiritual life.
Physical care makes children feel happy about their health. Take care of children intellectually and morally, and also make them feel happy spiritually. This is a world that children enter, and there are endless surprises and discoveries waiting for them.
There are obvious differences between the children educated by Children's Home's education mode and those who grew up in ordinary schools. They have a pure, happy, straightforward and open personality, and they feel that they are the masters of their own behavior.