2. Communicate with teachers, strengthen the education of children at school, and be able to accept and find children's problems. Parents should praise and encourage their children more and criticize and blame them less. This will help to enhance children's enthusiasm and overcome their rebellious psychology.
3. Respect children's independence and self-awareness, try to adjust the relationship with children and treat children as adults. Therefore, parents should respect their children's opinions, pay attention to their choices, and discuss with their children when encountering problems.
4. Respect children's privacy, give them moderate freedom, and negotiate with them when there are difficulties.
5. Be more tolerant of children and lower their expectations. As a parent, you should understand that although the child acts like an adult at this time, he is not an adult after all and cannot be as mature and rational as you think. When children screw up because of their own decisions, adults especially need to love, understand and support him. Parents' care, understanding and support will bring children closer to you.
6. Take children to participate in public welfare activities, help cultivate children's love, let children experience the fun of helping others, gradually change rebellious behavior, and successfully pass the rebellious period. It should be noted that it is very important for parents to have full patience and confidence in their children's education.
7. Stop nagging, be a good listener, listen more and talk less. A child who is becoming independent doesn't want adults to talk all day.
8. Make rules and bottom lines with your children. These rules and bottom lines restrict children and adults. Parents and children act within the rules and the bottom line, which helps to alleviate family conflicts.
As parents, we must first understand that children's "rebellion" is precisely the performance of their healthy growth. In the face of rebellious children, don't be angry, let alone complain, but reflect on yourself and change your way of thinking. When you get better, so will your children.