First, parents' misconceptions Many parents like to intimidate their children into obedience. The reason why parents use this way of education can actually explain to a certain extent that these parents have no educational concept, and they don't know how to manage their children, so these parents only use language intimidation to scare their children. Therefore, these parents themselves have wrong educational concepts. These parents adopted these direct and rude education methods without analyzing the specific situation and combining the actual characteristics of their children.
Second, parents think this kind of education method is the most effective. Sometimes parents tell their children very well, but at this time the children always don't listen, so parents will feel very annoyed. Therefore, parents will use intimidation to warn their children, so that children will feel very scared, and children will stop their current behavior in order not to be hurt, so parents think this kind of education is the most effective. Moreover, children spend a lot of time with their parents, so they know each other very well. When children discover their parents' temper, they will not obey their parents' general education. At this time, parents will use threatening education methods.
Conclusion Although this educational method is effective, threatening education is not good for children's growth. If parents use this method to stop their children's behavior when they are young, and when the children grow up and have their own independent judgment and thinking ability, they may doubt what their parents said before, then the children will not believe what their parents said.