There is a very common phenomenon in education in China-accompanying students. Why am I with you? Of course, let the children spend more time studying, and the accompanying parents are responsible for daily chores such as washing and eating, so that the children can eat and wear warm clothes under their own care and don't have to worry about things other than learning.
Accompanying students is actually a manifestation of nanny education. Perhaps because of the excessive care of parents, children will become good children in the mouths of other parents and become role models for other children. But the longer the time, the more obvious the disadvantages brought by this kind of education, which will easily lead to children's personality defects and weaken their ability to adapt to society and stand on their own feet. It is difficult to communicate with people after entering the society, and it is easy to be rejected.
Parents must make long-term plans for their children's lives, get rid of the misunderstanding brought by nanny education in time, and avoid bringing more psychological and personality problems to their children and affecting their lives.
Children's education begins at an early age. "It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish." It is better to satisfy children than to train them everywhere. In the process of educating children, training begins in kindergarten and is carried out in a targeted, planned and efficient way. Let children form good habits as soon as possible, and parents will feel at ease in the follow-up study.
On the road of children's growth, parents should not do everything themselves, do not be nannies, and leave enough living space for their children. You can help your children buy clothes, but let them wash their own clothes; You can help your children cook, but you must wash the dishes yourself. What he can do must be done by himself. Don't do anything to make him study better and have more time to study. This can easily lead to selfish personality and weak self-care ability of children.
The correct education of parents will cultivate children's correct outlook on life and values and become valuable people to society. Reject nanny education and don't let children become "giant babies".