The role model has quietly entered the world of children.
In fact, when you start to educate your children with language, your role model has quietly entered the children's world. When a teacher teaches men and women to respect each other, his past practical experience may be that his father often loses his temper with his mother, and her mother does all the housework ... In the child's mind, he may think it is wrong for them to get married (because they don't love each other), so he is dissatisfied with his father (why not help her with the housework), and so on. Regardless of whether they are taught or not, sex education has entered their lives very early.
The first step of infant sex education.
"Where am I from? 」
Children around the age of 3-4 will be interested in sex. They will ask themselves where they come from and touch their mother's genitals, which are common behaviors at this age. The best answer for children is "as simple and true as possible". He will get angry when he sees mom and dad hugging each other. He will point to the pregnant mother's belly and ask where the baby came in. For these embarrassing things, most parents choose to avoid talking about them, or just make up a story. Actually, it's not necessary Telling children honestly will be the best way. In most cases, children will ask questions purely out of curiosity, rather than planning to have children or being interested in sex. If you tell him that he will have a baby because his parents love each other, he may mistakenly think that he will have a baby if he loves his mother, or why his parents don't love (often quarrel), so your answer is just to answer questions, and you don't need much about the process of your love, and you don't need to "add" the process of sexual behavior. You can answer directly: the baby is formed by the combination of the father's egg and the mother's egg, and the baby will. Let children know that all living things are born in this way. Giving birth to a child is not a particularly mysterious thing. Adults don't have to be embarrassed. Children are just curious about their "source". In fact, preschool children ask mostly out of curiosity. He just needs an answer he can understand.