We often say that the parents of the older generation are stumbling blocks to children's upbringing, and it is the identity of grandparents that makes us see many comments. Because of the difference in years of education, two generations have different views on parenting, especially in it runs in the family's family, which is really a difficult thing. At this time, it is very important for someone to stand up and negotiate. It can be put forward by one person, by means of family meeting, to express opinions in a democratic way, and to reach the final unified concept of parenting.

Parents must talk to grandparents directly. In the long run, it will be bad for the growth of their children.

1. Parents should communicate with grandparents about some specific problems of their children and reach an agreement. It is understandable that grandparents are eager to love their grandchildren and can't tolerate their grandchildren being wronged a little. However, parents must remind grandparents not to intervene when parents discipline their children, which will give them an illusion and there is nothing to be afraid of. Even if parents are not disciplined properly, they should maintain their dignity in front of their children, otherwise their parents will be more difficult to control when their children are older.

2. Try to avoid disciplining children in front of grandparents. If parents live with grandparents, parents should try to avoid grandparents when disciplining their children. In particular, some parents beat their children, not in front of grandparents. You can take your child to another room and communicate with him calmly. Even if the child goes to complain to grandparents later, grandparents should guide the child to reflect on whether he is wrong or not.

3. Grandparents should be the appeasers of family education. For example, if a grandson is scolded or beaten by his parents, grandparents can calm the child's emotions and let the child's negative emotions have an outlet. Then, his grandparents will guide the child and tell him why his parents did that and what you did wrong, so that the child can calm down and reflect. If grandparents feel that their parents are not disciplined properly, they can criticize them in front of their children and communicate privately in the future.

In this way, grandparents in family education, from extreme to lubrication, let children understand their parents' discipline, do not form opposition with their parents, and make family education practical and effective.