Happily, Wang Zihan's mother in our class called and said: Recently, the children always don't want to go to school and have the idea of skipping classes. I was surprised at first, but then I calmed down and asked the reason: It turned out that the child said that in the third grade, there were many courses, long class hours and great pressure, so he didn't want to go to school, so he skipped class for half a day. Mother felt very helpless. Originally, the child's grades were very bad. Children have a lot of problems. It turns out that this child often can't finish her homework ... she can't take care of herself, and even her head is covered with lice. When she was at school in Nuo Nuo, she was very passive and was not good at interacting with people. ...
? I didn't like the half-day when the child didn't come. Call her mother at night and chat with her father. Tell parents: naturally don't put pressure on children, just encourage them to come to school! The next day, Wang Zihan came to school. After class, I said to the children, "Zi Han, you are here at last! Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Yesterday, you didn't come for a long time, and the teacher's heart hung for a long time and didn't sleep well at night, because every time the teacher saw your position was empty, the teacher's heart was empty at that moment. The teacher wants to tell you that if you don't want to study, just sit where you are, listen to the teacher occasionally, and see the teacher occasionally to let the teacher know that you are here. Are you willing to promise? " The child nodded and said, "teacher, I know!" " "
? Less than a month later, my father called again and said, "Miss Ning, the child is poor. I'm afraid I can't keep up with her." Can you tell the other two teachers not to let her children do their homework in class? I'm afraid that if she doesn't go to school, she can't keep up with her studies ... "I didn't really think much, so I said without thinking," No problem, as long as the children come to school, don't worry! " I think what I did was really unscientific and unwise, but at that moment I just wanted my children to come to school! )
? So, I simply analyzed the story and the child's personality with Teacher Niu and Teacher Yu. Our three teachers made a simple plan for children's classroom learning: as long as children come to school, they should pay more attention to their emotions and don't put pressure on them. If they don't want to do their homework, they won't do it well! How can there be a teacher who doesn't care about his students? We three teachers pay close attention to Wang Zihan's mood and the changes in the classroom. Strangely, how can we care about her when we are still planning how to decompress her? She can't help sitting in class. She looked around and found that other students were studying, so she took the initiative to start writing. Slowly, there seems to be light in her eyes. On the day of review, the children made three papers. Unexpectedly, Wang Zihan made only one mistake in three tests. So I praised her in class and affirmed her ... (I can't remember what good words of encouragement I said at that time) and circulated her test paper in class. What is even more unexpected is that she picked up a rag that day and carefully wiped the windowsill on the last windowsill on the left side of the classroom. I photographed her scene and posted it in my circle of friends. The child went home at night and learned through his mother that the teacher praised her in the circle of friends. The next day, she came to school, gave me a candy happily and said, "Teacher, what do you think of my recent performance?" I said, "Zi Han has always been the best. You show that the teacher hasn't figured out how to praise you these two days. I'll tell you when the teacher has figured out how to praise you. Would you please wait a moment? " (At this time, the students get together and look straight at Wang Zihan, who doesn't talk at ordinary times. Personally, I think it is inappropriate to talk too much at this time. )
? The class waited until the day before the exam. She grabbed the skirt with both hands and walked to the platform. Her voice was vague, but she just said clearly, "Teacher, do you think I can get 100 in this exam?" I think my answer at that time should be a smile and a positive voice. I said, "Zi Han, 100 is always yours. But the teacher will be happy if he thinks how many points you get in the exam. Don't worry, as long as you study hard, good grades will always be yours! " She still passively returned to her seat in Nuo Nuo. She stood up again before she could sit down. After several times, she just sat still. I know she's calming down. This lovely little girl, who is always at a loss, bravely took the final exam and ranked first in the class with 100. How happy she is! Her mother sent a text message: Teacher Ning, the final exam is over, and the child told me that she will definitely get 100. Because our teacher said that I have become different recently!
? Get along with children, you can love children only if you have children in your eyes! If you have children in your eyes, you can teach them well! A teacher is an ordinary job, so ordinary that as long as the children are healthy and happy; Teachers are the most extraordinary profession, shouldering the happiness of families and the civilization of society; Teachers are still the happiest people, because what you are with is a simple life! Only kindness can nourish the soul-(I will continue after you-)