Always an audience. Sitting in the conference room, listening to the expert Kan Kan's endless speech.
If the experts are charming, they will be amazed. If the lecture is boring, I will also use my mobile phone to kill time.
On the first anniversary of studying psychological counseling with teacher Zhang, he asked each of us to prepare a lecture.
"We are here to study psychology. Why do you practice lecturing? " I had questions in my heart and asked them out.
Teacher Zhang said with a smile: "Only by giving lectures can we systematize the knowledge we have learned. Don't worry, everyone's level is very high now! " You just prepare, each for half an hour, and we will draw lots to decide the order. "
I was lucky enough to catch up with the first class, and I was under great pressure.
I still clearly remember that it happened to be the winter vacation, and I racked my brains for this lecture.
The first is to determine the topic, because I have too little knowledge in my heart. I feel that tigers eat the sky and can't eat it.
Teacher Zhang has given numerous lectures, and it is really a pleasure to listen to his lectures. The close combination of theory and case really makes everyone feel like a spring breeze, washing away the dust of the soul. But it's easier to see flowers than embroidery!
On the third day of the first month, I finally set the topic of "nourishing the mind" for myself, because in the process of studying psychology, I felt warm and saw nourishment.
Teacher Zhang said that a good lecture often uses the "3w" principle, which is clear: what to do, why to do it, and how to do it.
I began to collect information, and even mixed up what Teacher Zhang said in class. When communicating with Teacher Zhang's WeChat, I mentioned that I should use Teacher Zhang's information in my lectures. Teacher Zhang encouraged: "As long as it is taught to you, everything is yours. Just use it. This is the doctrine of taking! "
Teacher Zhang reminded us that beginners had better write down everything they want to say in class.
On the day of the speech, Teacher Zhang and his brothers and sisters were sitting under the stage.
I successfully concluded the lecture in half an hour. Teacher Zhang and my brothers and sisters gave me comments and encouragement.
The hardest part is actually at the beginning. Once I succeed, I don't think it is difficult to make a speech. I have confidence and a sense of accomplishment!
Four and a half years have passed, and my dear teacher Zhang died on July 3 1 last year. Looking back on his study days in the psychology group, I will never forget it.
Standing today and looking back on this first lecture, we can't help but sigh that Mr. Zhang's guidance is really brilliant: a good psychology lecture must have a system and a framework. On this basis, coupled with the case, the case should be grounded, lively and able to attract the audience.
Pronunciation and intonation are very important, but we can't put the cart before the horse. Beginners should practice from the theoretical basis and content when giving lectures.
The second lecture was held in the teacher training office. At that time, the school recommended me to join the psychological talent pool. I didn't expect to have a lecture here. The audience is my peers and class teacher.
With the first experience, I quickly made a courseware and wrote a text draft.
However, on the day of the speech, I had no confidence. After all, the audience are all people of their own level. Can you agree with my speech?
It's a good thing I have a written manuscript. I sat behind the desk and talked for a long time before I finished. That kind of tension and worry is really a long story! When talking about the case in the middle, I also try to look up at the audience without reading the manuscript. The language is actually fluent and proficient, and I think I am a little tall.
The lecture will last for two rounds, and different class teachers will take turns to study. The second time I repeated it, I felt much more relaxed psychologically.
Later, I met Mr. Zhang, who smiled and said, Your lecture was very good, and many students gave me feedback, which was very successful! Thanks to Mr. Zhang, his encouragement is always so timely, sincere and full of strength!
I could have taken the opportunity to quit the second psychological talent pool when I changed members. However, considering that I am sitting and lecturing, I have no courage to stand and speak without writing. I still encourage myself to choose to stay in the teacher training office, with only one purpose: I want to exercise myself, stand and lecture, and don't write!
Who would have thought that the third lecture would be so difficult? First of all, the psychological talent pool has been merged into the head teacher's talent pool. The leader said that there is no need to talk about psychological expertise.
Huh? !
But my knowledge reserve for so many years mainly comes from psychology!
So, let's talk about family education.
Twice in a row, my lecture was rejected at the group polishing meeting.
The first denial is that the frame structure is chaotic.
Because, I really don't have theoretical support in this respect, just list cases.
I was rejected for the second time because the prepared content coincided with a previous teacher's lecture.
In order to successfully pass the lecture for the third time, I think about it day and night, even when I walk.
I still remember 20 18, when spring is blooming, I am not in the mood to smell the flowers and have no energy to look up at the blue sky. My mind is on the lecture, ah, how can I polish the theme lecture all day!
On June 19, I visited Teacher Zhang. He gave me some psychological advice. Yes, knowledge of psychology is my strong point. How can I give up?
After listening to teacher Zhang's words, I was enlightened!
Soon after the courseware and text draft were released, the lecture passed smoothly!
At this time, I met the problem I wanted to overcome at first, and I finished writing!
My brother recommended me to attend the speech training camp, and my best friend invited me to attend the teacher skills training promotion conference organized by Zheng Liping in Weihai. My sister invited me to attend family education and training in Yantai, and I actively participated in it, with the aim of improving my language skills.
At the end of August and September of the same year, the school gave me two opportunities to study psychology.
Every time, the focus is on trying to figure out the expert's pronunciation and intonation, gestures and eyes, and how to control the field.
Until1October 10, I successfully completed the one-day lecture on manuscript release, and my heart almost jumped with joy!
Before I left that morning, my brothers and sisters were encouraging me and sending me a lot of voices to cheer me up! Their encouragement is timely rain!
The next lecture was repeated six times, because it was a full-time class teacher training, and the time span was relatively long, and it was not finished until June 65438+February.
I have made new progress every time in these six classes, and my ability to control the field, comment on the scene and improvise has made great progress.
Standing on the podium, I am very comfortable, Kan Kan said, because I have read the lecture notes countless times, and I am very skilled!
The fourth lecture is the offline exchange activities of smart parents organized by Laiyang. As a sharing teacher, I only spent a week making courseware.
Before I left, I told my brothers and sisters that I was very upset because I didn't write a written draft. I don't know how my language skills are. Can I play it on the spot?
As it turns out, with the accumulation of the first three classes, I spoke for an hour and forty minutes, which was very smooth! My brother motioned me to hurry up and finish it as soon as possible. After all, it takes more than an hour's drive back.
After the activity, I was encouraged and recognized by many parents. Everyone adds me to WeChat and communicates with me.
Summarizing these four lectures, we have made progress every time.
Especially when preparing the fourth lecture courseware, I suddenly realized the mode of teacher Zhang preparing materials, but how to improve it on the basis of inheriting this mode?
Still groping.
This summer vacation, I saw Liu Run's article, reminding me to read more papers. Many works are based on papers. As for where I read the paper, I was not confused at that time.
A few days ago, when searching for parenting knowledge for Han Han's mother, I saw some papers and materials provided by 360 personal libraries, which were very detailed and immediately inspired me:
If you want to break through Mr. Zhang's lecture mode, you should read more papers on psychology and learn more from 360 Library!
Drops of water wear away stones, not empty words.
I will continue to work hard!