observe carefully
When children have an argument, the first thing we should do is to observe carefully to understand the cause, intensity and whether we adults need to intervene.
Wisdom guidance
If the conflict is not serious, try to guide the children to solve it themselves. Encourage them to sit down and talk, find out the crux of the problem together and find a solution. This can cultivate their cooperation ability and problem-solving ability.
Fair mediation
When the contradiction escalates and the children can't solve it by themselves, we should give them appropriate help and guidance on the basis of fairness and objectivity to help them solve the contradiction.
Educational moment
Whether directly involved or not, after the conflict is resolved, it is an excellent educational opportunity. We can inspire children to reflect on their behaviors and attitudes, improve their ability to solve problems and cultivate their spirit of understanding, respect and cooperation.