I. Self-sacrifice Education Self-sacrifice education means that in the process of education, parents take children as the center, and under any conditions, they take children as the primary consideration, not education or a certain goal. This kind of education will make the child too arrogant, make him arrogant in daily life, and especially make parents lose their dignity in family education. The influence of this kind of education on children's character development is very obvious. Arrogance is the development of a child's bad character.
Long-term use of self-sacrifice education is only the parents' self-touch, not the practical help for children's development. The so-called education is not only to consider children, but also to develop in an all-round way, to help children establish a more perfect system, to improve their learning knowledge and improve their personality development. We should know that all parents' behaviors in family education may affect their children's development, whether it is personality or study or other aspects.
Second, the impact on the development of children's personality Everyone's personality is different because in family education, parents' education methods are different. In this way of education, parents usually only consider their children. For example, when eating, parents may say "I don't need to feed you" whether the children want it or not, which is a disguised form of self-sacrifice. In fact, the most correct way to educate children is to put them in a completely equal position with their parents. Don't give in blindly, let alone sacrifice yourself. Children are not only parents' children, but also a complete individual. They have their own ideas, so parents don't need to educate their children about self-sacrifice at all.
Many parents' self-sacrifice is often not understood by their children, which is also called self-touching. I believe many parents will think that they have paid so much for their children under this kind of self-sacrifice education. Why do children still not understand themselves and their good intentions? I don't know that this kind of self-sacrifice is just an invisible burden for children. Many times the concessions made by parents are not what children need. This may also make children completely ignorant of how to be grateful and how to repay their parents, so this kind of education can easily make children's personality development incomplete.
There are many ways of education, so parents must choose a healthy way of education instead of self-sacrifice. In this way of education, only parents and children are paid as complete recipients, so it is difficult to understand the good intentions of parents. When parents educate their children, they should choose the education method on the premise of their healthy development.