In ancient China, there was a man who did a good job in this field. However, many people don't know her name. Only Saint Amethyst recorded her again. In the past, Meng Mu chose a neighbor. This is a great mother. She can not only set a good example for her children, but also know how much the environment affects people, so she is not afraid of the trouble of moving again and again. Finally, he created an outstanding writer in ancient China.
However, no one in this world knows her name, and there may be historical materials to look up, but it seems that no one will deliberately look up this, which on the one hand reflects the low status of women in ancient China. On the one hand, it also reflects that many people's knowledge level only stays in the compulsory education stage, because there is a story of Meng Mu's three moves in the textbook, but there is no Meng Mu's name in the textbook. So I don't know, and few of my friends know.
Here's the story. Mencius was gifted as a child and was good at imitation. Little Mencius lives near the cemetery and plays some sacrificial games every day. Meng Mu thought this was not something a child should learn, so he took him to the market. Little Mencius played some games all day, such as trading, butchers selling meat. Meng Mu also felt inappropriate and finally moved to school. Finally, Mencius began to learn etiquette, learning it every day.
This proves how much a person is influenced by the environment. Especially for children, so the social circle of children is particularly important. It is said that thieves should not be trapped, as long as one deceives two. Even adults can't resist the temptation of the environment, let alone children. If children are allowed to play with some children who only know how to play every day, they will definitely play together in the future, but it is not good for their development.
As the saying goes, those who are near ink are black. You can tell a person's character by looking at his friends, so friends are our character orientation. If we are naughty, we will definitely find naughty friends. Even if we are told not to be naughty at home, I won't listen because I have so many friends following me. Therefore, the guidance of parents is essential, but the influence of friends is also a big aspect.
So parents must pay attention to it. It doesn't mean that I can leave him alone if I put him in a better school, or I can leave his social circle alone, or I need to find some positive friends to play with him, so that we can make progress and grow together. Without wasting a child's perfect time.