1. Tell your roommates about their living habits. In fact, many roommates break up not because of big things, but because of small things. For example, you are used to getting up early, and roommates usually go to bed at two or three in the evening. You have to tell them that you can't stay up too late, so you will wear earplugs and try to keep your voice down when your roommate is playing. Of course, this doesn't mean that you go to bed at ten o'clock at night and then complain that your roommate is noisy. Dormitory is a public space, so you can't follow your own ideas completely. Compromise is the king of harmonious relationship. 2. Good communication and attention are very important, especially those dormitories that share classes. Everyone has different ideas, so you should actively express your ideas, don't say nothing, and then feel that your roommate is targeting you, and then you don't like it more and more. He doesn't like your eyes when he looks at you, but in fact he just used your shampoo at first. I suggest that after the end of each month, people in the dormitory go to eat together and chat with each other. This is very important. The problem of money is a very important problem. Many people finally parted ways because their roommates didn't handle the problem of money well. Whether it's dinner or something, remember to make sure. My roommate said,' No, you can't really not give money. Everyone is a loser or a winner, but most of the time they don't want to talk about it, so let's keep the money relationship innocent. The relationship is particularly good, and it is ok to eat him once in a while. 4. Don't use your roommate. This problem is the reason why most dormitories go their separate ways. This is a small matter, but sometimes it is the sharpest knife. My roommate's things are personal and belong to him. When you borrow them, you must ask them in advance. Don't eat his snacks without saying hello. The roommate conflict is not because of a pack of snacks, but because you don't respect him. Both nature and animals have territorial consciousness, and all who come in are enemies. As the most advanced natural hunter-human, how can there be no territorial consciousness? Although taking advantage is a trivial matter, many a mickle makes a mickle, which becomes a big problem. Remember that everyone's living habits and personality are different. Don't use your own point of view to guess other people's behavior, or you will soon be hated by your roommate. Summarize how to deal with the relationship between college roommates. You must remember these five points, otherwise the dormitory relationship will be bad. Everyone should remember that the most important thing to maintain a good relationship is respect. Tell your roommates everything and let them know what they have done and why they want to go. Most people will understand you. How to deal with the relationship between roommates in the dormitory II. How to deal with the relationship between college roommates? You must remember these five points: 1, different living habits. People from different places in the same dormitory. Everyone has his own living habits. Some people like going to bed late, while others like going to bed early. Some people like to cook hot pot and eat instant noodles, while others don't eat spicy food. Friction always exists in an instant. It's normal to have conflicts. The probability is much more than that in the class! 2. Different personalities. Some people are smart and exquisite, some people are silent, some people are emotionally uncertain, and some people are rigorous and speculative. Some people speak straight, while others speak obliquely. The last little thing, the mouth is not forgiving, and there is a serious fight everywhere. 3. No sense of belonging. Do not agree with dormitory culture, always envy other people's dormitory. Complaining about the influence of people in their dormitory, high cold and disunity. Over time, there will be quarrels inside the dormitory. 4. There is no communication channel. Everyone is busy studying, falling in love, working in a club or doing part-time jobs. Four people choose different people together, and the dormitory is a place to sleep, not a home. The party can't be mentioned at all, and the cost can't be mentioned. Originally, I was quite wronged outside, but I also had to intrigue in the dormitory, which was a vicious circle. As a college student, I still have rich experience in dealing with dormitory relations. There are five people in our dormitory, four are locals, and I am the only one from other provinces. On the first day of school, we introduced each other and began to get to know each other. When roommates get to know each other, they must know everyone's personality, preferences (or the most annoying things). Only by fully understanding roommates can we get along better, what to say and what not to say, what to do and what not to do. Remember, don't be maverick, don't always feel that you look down on your roommates, and feel that you are better than others and healthier than others. Because you will isolate yourself in the whole dormitory, in the long run you will not be able to stand moving out of the dormitory. How to deal with the roommate relationship between dorms 3. Actively mingle with your roommates, and don't be unsociable. Roommates are going to spend a few years together, so we should get along well with them from the beginning, never be unsociable, and never do everything alone, which will be isolated and make our college days very lonely. It is necessary to communicate with roommates more and find common ground, so as to have endless words and better feelings. Timely division of labor, such as cleaning, to avoid unnecessary quarrels. As every member of a dormitory, it is your responsibility to clean your room. At this time, we need to work together. We can stipulate who is in charge of what every week and make it clear in advance to avoid complaining about who does more and who does less in the future. Everyone should learn to do their job well and provide a clean environment for everyone. Respect everyone's living habits and respect others' privacy. Everyone has a little secret that they don't want others to know. Although we are best friends, we should also respect others' privacy. We should not speak, keep secrets for others, never disclose friends' secrets, and never speak ill of others behind their backs. Keep quiet when reading indoors. If your roommate is a schoolmaster and likes reading very much, then she should remember to keep quiet when reading. You can wear headphones when watching movies and listening to music, and you can talk outside when you make a phone call. Keep quiet and don't disturb others' study. Of course, if you are a schoolmaster, please take good care of your roommate. Try to arrange the reading place in the classroom or library, and it is better to chat with friends in the dormitory. If there are contradictions, solve them in time, and don't hold grudges. Several people have completely different living habits and often live together, which will inevitably lead to differences. It is normal to have a quarrel, but if there are contradictions, we should solve them in time. If it is our own fault, we should apologize, and if it is not our own fault, we should learn to tolerate it. Will not hold grudges, the contradiction is solved, two people are still best friends, learn to forget unpleasant things. With the right person, there is no need to be strong if two people have completely different personalities. Everyone's growing environment is different, and everyone's personality is different. Everyone likes to get along with people who are similar to themselves, which makes it easier to talk, but people with completely different personalities often don't get along very well, so there is no need to be so familiar with everyone. Just be with the person who suits you best, be polite to those who don't get along at all, and don't ask yourself to be completely integrated into the circle you don't like.