Children can truly feel your love, his own personality and emotional intelligence will be improved, he will be kind to people and things around him, and he will take learning seriously. Regardless of the IQ level, children will grow up in a loving family, treat everything positively, and have good resistance to stress. The so-called smooth mood, others will follow smoothly.

I am also the parents of my children. The way I educate my children can be summarized as follows:

First, find advantages and promote steps. The child is in the fourth grade and comes home from school on weekends. My questions are generally whether I did well in class, answered a few questions, attended several platforms, what are the good deeds in the class, who received the most praise, and which students were rated as class stars this week. Let him look for his own advantages first, and then look for the advantages of other students, so that he can know where he is doing well and where he needs to learn from others, so as to realize the synchronous improvement of thinking and learning.

Second, when it is time to let go, let the children face the gap and difficulties, grow up independently and find their own direction. Keep a certain distance from children, parents should respect their children equally and rationally, leave a little discretion and leave some room for their children. This is the real high-quality love for children. Create conditions and opportunities for children to feel the social activities of dedication and love, and cultivate the virtues of caring for others, respecting teachers and helping others. When a child fails, parents should not complain blindly, preach bluntly, let alone blame, but actively encourage and patiently guide. The child's self-esteem is still very fragile and can't stand too heavy a blow. At this time, parents are most needed to nourish with love and tolerance.

Third, see the world with your own eyes. All kinds of things that happen around him every day make him understand the cause and effect of things and say his feelings in his own words, even if he can only say a few words. Long-term persistence can gradually cultivate his ability to analyze problems, not only help to develop good behavior habits, but also collect writing materials.

Love is the pillar that supports one's life. If a person has no love, what is the point of living? Therefore, as soon as a child is born, it is necessary to educate her about love. Even when she grows up, she will have a wonderful life.