Hou Liangping, played by Lu Yi, was transferred to the anti-corruption director of the Han Dong Provincial Procuratorate. Out of his friendship with his good friend Chen Hai, he took over the responsibility of disciplining Chen Hai's son Chen Dong (Xiao Qiu). 17 episode, Lu Yike was having a case analysis meeting and suddenly received a phone call from the school. She learned that the naughty ball broke the school glass because she played football at school, so she had to ask Hou Liangping for help and let Hou Liangping go to school to clean up. Hou Haoran (the son of Hou Liang Ping), like Xiao Qiu, often makes mistakes at school. Hou Liangping was used to criticism, so he made a gesture of review and went to school to be criticized by the principal. After meeting the headmaster, Hou Liangping has a very good attitude. He kept reviewing the mistakes of the ball with the principal, and the principal couldn't say anything more. He only asked Hou Liangping to compensate for the glass broken by the ball. After solving the glass problem, the headmaster took Hou Liangping to see the wall of the corridor, only to know that the ball kicked the ball in the corridor and stained the wall, so he wiped the wall with chalk. Afterwards, Hou Liangping ran a few laps on the playground as a punishment for this incident and the resulting "bribery" behavior of school students, so as to educate Xiao Qiu.
I think Hou Liangping's handling of children's misconduct here is a bit simple and rude. First of all, the child destroyed the public property of the school. As a "parent", Hou Liangping didn't understand the reason for the child's behavior, and the child didn't agree, because the monkey uncle in Beijing supported him and took on the cost of repairing the glass. So, what will children learn from it? Is there any reason why you can play football outside the playground? Because other students play like this, can he play like this? For growing children, they need to gradually learn to be responsible for their own actions, and they need to bear the natural consequences caused by such actions, such as cooperating with schools or glass repairmen to carry out maintenance and bear part of the maintenance costs. (According to the dialogue in the play, children have 100 yuan of pocket money to spend every month), so they need to be given the opportunity to learn to take responsibility, instead of letting the parents who landed the helicopter directly help them deal with the aftermath.
In addition, for misconduct such as "bribery" of primary school students, Hou Liangping emphasized that "you are the son of the anti-corruption director" and you can't pay bribes. Can ordinary people do it? At this time, as the main force of anti-corruption, the director of anti-corruption should better guide children to think about what they can do if they don't want to go with the flow, what reasonable and legal ways can achieve their needs and goals, what children can do and what parents need to help. For example, teachers, schools and other external forces are required to conduct more reasonable management and so on. I think the development and improvement of children's independent thinking and problem-solving ability can not be learned and exercised simply by running around the playground for five times.
Of course, it is worthy of recognition that Hou Liang painted the football logo on the wall with a small ball and told the children how to take responsibility for their actions and bear the consequences of improper behavior with his own actions.
The goal of most parents is to hope that their children are good people and contribute to society. When children make mistakes, it is a good opportunity to learn. Through the education of parents, guide children to accept the natural consequences of their actions, think and find solutions, and cultivate responsible social citizens.