Every child has his own growth trajectory. Although we can help them grow up better or get into a better university, nothing is absolute. Not all children can be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, nor does it mean that only those who are admitted to Tsinghua Peking University are the best. But some learning methods can be used for reference by those students who study well.
(1) Learning does not require children to study hard, but to learn to understand and use flexibly.
There are many ways to learn, and everyone's is different, so don't blindly ask children to learn the same way with other people's learning methods. It is more effective to guide children to find their own learning methods than to blindly follow them.
(2) Diligence can make up.
If a child is born with poor learning ability, he must work harder if he wants to get good grades. Diligence can make up for mistakes, which is the unchangeable truth in learning. It is a necessary condition for children to have good academic performance. If the congenital conditions are worse than other children, it is even more necessary to work hard.
(3) If you have economic conditions, you can ask a tutor for your child.
Nowadays, the competition in the field of education is quite fierce. If conditions permit, you can consider hiring a tutor for your child. This targeted education method will also be helpful for children's learning.
But in any case, parents should also know that not every child can go to Peking University in Tsinghua, and going to Peking University in Tsinghua is not the definition of a successful life. Of course, if you pass the organic exam, keep working hard.
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