Understand the child's feelings
Understand children's feelings. I no longer put myself on the opposite side of the child, but learn to stand in the child's position and feel his feelings with my heart.
Find out the psychological reasons for resistance.
Find out the psychological reasons for resistance. Understanding doesn't mean not making rules, but when making rules for children, I won't "enforce" those rules that he has been resisting, but find out the reasons why children resist and try to solve them.
Find an outlet for emotions
Find an emotional outlet. Education experts believe that many times, children deliberately do things that adults are not allowed to do in order to vent bad emotions or anxiety. In view of this, if I lose my temper again, I won't scold him or punish him.