In marriage, many people divorce because the relationship between husband and wife is broken, and some people divorce because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is getting more and more tense. Because of disagreement on the common children's education, it is true that the separation of sons is like a divorced couple. Not much, but not without it. It's just that this ratio is relatively easy to reconcile, and the child has been growing. When children reach a certain age and don't need too much guidance, this contradiction will naturally dissipate. Although once, it is relatively unlikely.
I think it is normal that there are differences in parenting concepts. In the face of children's education, everyone looks at it from their own perspective. The way they think is definitely the best and the essence is the same, so that children can grow up better. But in this process, we should also try our best to apply the correct methods to children. Every child is different. The effect of one method is not the same for everyone, so when there are differences, we should communicate with our children and get the final answer from them. The right way is the best way for children, not their own part-time job, so sometimes we should not go too far.
In the process of children's growth, parents need to make great efforts to make their children grow up healthily, which is a matter of great concern to all parents. But in the process of children's growth, what is most needed is a family atmosphere in which parents can trust and love each other calmly. Parents can provide their children with a good family background, so that they can move forward in the process of growing up. Therefore, we must correct our mentality and don't let such contradictions destroy the feelings of two people.