Therefore, if you want to make a person more popular and face all kinds of ups and downs in life, you must develop good personality habits.
Therefore, we need to cultivate children from an early age, so that children can develop a good personality habit from an early age, so that children will be more comfortable when facing difficulties in the future.
Children aged 2-3 are an important period of personality development. At this time, our parents should pay attention. At this time, children are curious about everything, have strong imitation ability and are easily influenced by the outside world to develop bad personality habits.
Therefore, we need to focus on the personality development of children between the ages of 2 and 3.
For example, some children will hit themselves in the face when they are angry, some will hit themselves on the head, some will sit on the ground and cry, and some will kneel on the ground to play tricks and use this "self-abuse" behavior to vent their anger. Of course, children don't know what "self-abuse" behavior is, they are just venting their anger.
There are also some grumpy children who will hit others when they are angry. For example, when you are angry, hit people around you, grandpa, grandma, grandma, grandpa, children and so on.
If parents find that their children have the above-mentioned behaviors, they should help them to correct them in time, and this situation should not be allowed to continue, otherwise it will be difficult to change their character after it is formed.
Therefore, our parents must pay more attention to observation when their children are 2-3 years old, and help correct these behaviors immediately after finding them.
Maybe one day we will suddenly find that children will have "abnormal" behavior after getting angry, venting their anger by hitting themselves or others, or venting in an unreasonable way.
If parents think that the child is too young to be sensible at this time and there is no need to argue with him, then you have missed the best opportunity to correct the child's bad "problems". When children think that they have got what they want in this way, or vent their anger, they will continue to use this way and get out of hand.
We should severely warn our children as soon as we find this kind of behavior. It is wrong to do so, and he is not allowed to adopt this method again. If it happens again, he will be punished, and in the process, there is no room for discussion.
Many times, parents will be puzzled when they find that such a young child vented his anger in some extreme ways. Where did the child learn, how did these behaviors suddenly appear, and who taught him?
In fact, no one teaches children these behaviors because children are influenced by external factors.
For example, parents often quarrel, and grumpy parents even have "self-abuse" behavior, hitting themselves with their hands, hitting walls with their hands, throwing things and so on.
These behaviors will be silently "learned" by children. Don't think that children are fine when they are young. Children in this period have strong imitation ability. Invisibly, you taught your child that when he is angry, only in this way can he vent his anger.
In addition, some cartoons and some movies will also have some pictures that are not suitable for children to watch. Under the influence of these scenes, children learned to hit people, make trouble, cheat and so on.
Therefore, external influences are particularly important for children, and parents should pay more attention to themselves and other factors.
Secondly, some parents will take extreme behavior to educate their children when they find that their children have extreme behavior. For example, when a child appears to hit himself, parents will hit the child's hand to remind him that it is wrong.
But I don't know that such behavior further encourages the development of children's extreme behavior. Originally, the child was just venting anger. At this time, the parents are beating him, which will make the child's anger nowhere to vent, and finally lead to the child's more violent personality.
Therefore, our parents should pay attention to this behavior. We should use our own behavior and language to make children thoroughly understand that what they do is wrong, instead of using violence to restrain their behavior, otherwise it will only be counterproductive.