Cultivating children's good behavior habits is a very meticulous work. Educators should flexibly and tactfully use various methods to systematically educate young children.
Be persuasive and put forward clear and strict requirements for young children.
When making every request, we should carefully consider it in advance to make the request reasonable. According to the child's ability, it is required to improve step by step. At first, I just wanted my children to master simple rules of life. For example, in homework class, sit quietly and don't disturb others. Then, ask for social behavior, such as being polite to others, saying hello when you meet your aunt, accepting gifts from others, or thanking others for their help.
Judging from the ability of children, it is not only to complete some extremely simple requirements, but also to make great efforts. If the demands made by the educated are unreasonable and they can't accept them, then such demands will fail. When children can't meet some requirements of educators, they often lose confidence in their own abilities, doubt what educators say and distrust educators.
When I ask my children, I should pay attention to making the content specific, clear, popular and concise; Suitable for children's age characteristics. For example, children are required to be polite to others. I told my children this way: say hello to my aunt when I enter the park in the morning; Tell me when you get home? Goodbye? ; When talking to others, pay attention and don't look around; Don't interrupt when others are talking? . . This requirement is specific and clear so that children can follow it.
Constantly encourage children to develop slowly in practice.
Children's willpower can't last long, and it is difficult to concentrate for a long time. According to this characteristic of children, I take the method of constant encouragement to correct their bad behavior. For example, when everyone is taking a nap, some children often get up to urinate and walk heavily, so give him a hint to remind him to correct it; When a child walks carefully, he smiles and nods to show that he is doing the right thing. When children are encouraged, they will consciously stop those bad behaviors in order to get pleasure from their own behavior.
Prevent procrastination and pay attention to correcting any small behavior mistakes of children.
Children often develop bad behavior habits from small mistakes.
These things often happen in daily life: some children easily lose their temper, lying on the ground and desperately stepping on the floor with their little feet, crying and shouting; When some children like to play with certain toys, they must be given them unconditionally? None of these behaviors can be tolerated and allowed to develop.
Once, I took my child for a walk after class, and a child suddenly reached into my pocket. This is impolite behavior, so I immediately told the child seriously: don't put your hand into other people's pockets casually. ? Children like to imitate the behavior of adults, especially those close to them, and like them. I often infect young children with my own behavior. For example, pay attention to the correct posture when sitting, move the east chair back to its original place after use, and promise that the child will definitely realize it.
According to the situation, individual education should be combined with regular education.
Children's personality characteristics are different, they have their own hobbies, and their behavior habits are often different. There is a particularly timid child who is not used to collective life and does not believe in his own strength. Even the simplest things are often afraid to do. It is necessary for this young child to get into the habit of getting along with others. I encouraged him in various ways. First, let him do some simple things. Let him hand out exercise books in homework class; When the person who eats snacks is hungry, let him share plates and chopsticks. After one or two exercises. His courage grew slowly.
Then, I trained him to speak in public. I told you once? White rabbit? Ask the children in the class: What color is the white rabbit? ? This is a very simple question. After asking, I consciously said: Aunt is going to invite a brave child to answer this question. Let's see who is braver recently than in the past. ? The children mentioned the once timid child in unison, and he boldly stood up and answered this question.
Exchange of experience in child care for preschool teachers II.
Kindergarten is an important starting point of a child's life, from which he begins his real social life and study life. To this end, I chose Jiaxing Art Kindergarten for my daughter.
Parents are children's navigation boats. For them who have just left their parents' arms, kindergarten is a brand-new and unfamiliar environment. They want recognition, appreciation, sympathy, care and love, and more importantly, they want the love of their parents and teachers. This requires teachers and our parents to call, care, talk and communicate with their children with a sincere, loving and grateful heart, to caress their children and to enter their inner world.
Here, I want to share with you my educational experience of the little princess.
1, cold treatment: in the face of some unprincipled demands of my daughter, her mother and I insisted on disagreeing or ignoring them and made her cry. After she calmed down, we analyzed the reasons why she didn't meet, and asked her not to make such unreasonable demands next time. For example, a few days before my daughter first entered kindergarten, my daughter's mother and I took turns picking her up because of her parents. Later, due to working hours, her grandmother sent her to pick her up and see her off. At first, my daughter was very greedy for roadside snacks and pestered her grandmother. She even fell to the ground with grandma's leg in her arms. I happened to meet her at the gate of the community, so I ignored her and let her go home crying and straighten her out. The roadside snacks are dirty and dirty, and the birds have taken a shit. If you eat them, bugs will grow. People's nutrition will become smaller and smaller after being absorbed by worms, so you can't go to school or play happily with teachers and children's companions. Your family has prepared something you like to eat. ? Up to now, she has never asked us for roadside snacks. Even when I pick her up, she will take the initiative to say to me: Dad, these things are not for good children, okay? .
2. Conditional exchange method: My daughter is very picky about food, and she doesn't eat food she doesn't like or when she is unhappy. To this end, her mother specially listed a food reward and punishment record for her and said to her: Our whole family and she are equal and mutually supportive. If she does well in eating, she will score points at the dinner table and reward the whole family to take her to the park together. If you don't behave well, this equal relationship will be cancelled, and no one will cook you better in the future.
3, distraction method: when the daughter is sleeping, she always thinks about fun or happy things in school and can't calm down to sleep; Sometimes I even get up and sing and dance in bed. To this end, we ask her to close her eyes, play her favorite music, or tell her another story, so that she can fall asleep unconsciously in concentration.
4. Encouragement method: With the increase of age, let her eat a snack before writing, drawing and playing the piano after coming home from school, and sometimes let her sing her favorite songs along with the music through the microphone. Let him get up early in the morning to dance or jump rope, and let him develop regular life and study habits. For example, my daughter's family is distracted and even unwilling to practice writing. I specially downloaded the software Fairy Tale Literacy Park on the computer, so that she can practice writing with a writing book while learning this software, and finally let her listen to fairy tales or music in this software, so that she can have fun in her study, thus improving her learning enthusiasm.
Unconsciously, this beautiful flower entered the big class under the careful care of our parents and teachers, that is, it reached the stage of young convergence. Let's water and care for them with love and let them fight for it? Good boy? 、? Good boy? ! Complete the happy life in kindergarten perfectly and become a qualified little boy!
The exchange of preschool teachers' parenting experience.
On the morning of March 1, I attended the parents' committee meeting in kindergarten, and I was honored to be hired as a member of the family committee by kindergarten together with 23 other parents. Thank you very much for giving me this opportunity. The director felt a great responsibility from the moment he received the letter of appointment. Family Committee should make timely suggestions for the development of kindergartens, supplement educational resources outside kindergartens and promote family communication. As a bridge between kindergartens and parents, the Family Committee should also collect and reflect parents' opinions and suggestions on kindergarten work in time, organize the exchange of parenting experience, and constantly write a new chapter in family education.
At the meeting, the leaders of the park read out the articles of association of the family Committee; Letters of appointment were issued to participants and members; After the director's speech, we learned about the outstanding achievements of kindergarten in the past year and the key work in the future; After the representative of the family Committee spoke, the members watched it together? Taste happiness and educate people with happiness? Kindergarten special video. The leaders of the park also showed us around the class, outdoor facilities, kitchen and the newly renovated hall last year. During the visit, the unique corner construction of several classes and the colorful, innocent and lively regional activities of children were dazzling; Outdoor venues and facilities for children to play, such as simulated grass and grape racks, have been replaced, and new ones have been added. Pirate ship? Slides, shooters and other large toys and equipment, children run and jump happily on the soft lawn; In the kitchen that everyone pays close attention to, we can see that the operation room is spacious and bright, sanitary and clean, and three chefs are dressed neatly, wearing hats and masks, making famous buns. Seeing that everyone was interested in steamed bread, the director immediately arranged to taste it and sat in the conference room. Committee members are waited on by teachers like children. One by one, they ate steamed bread and drank bowls of tomato and egg soup. If they were not afraid of robbing the children of their lunch, they would really like to eat two more.
After this meeting, I learned more deeply and directly about the school's advanced software and hardware facilities, excellent teachers and science? Learn actively in the environment and develop harmoniously in the environment? The concept of early childhood education is abnormal, which is the practice that the garden has always insisted on not promoting primary education, and it is even more commendable today when early childhood education is becoming more and more utilitarian.
In the conversation with director Yuan Pan, we can really feel that she has a sincere heart for children and always thinks about them everywhere. In order to let children have a happy and healthy time, we will spend the most expensive price to buy big brands, the most environmentally friendly and most beneficial facilities for children. ? Love is the true meaning of education? It is precisely because kindergarten leaders have love and teachers have love that we trust and send our children to kindergarten, so that they can eat, drink and study in the garden. Contact the star kindergarten that has been widely rumored on the Internet recently and think of a slogan. Buy only the right ones, not the expensive ones? .
During the meeting and visit, we also found several problems, which were put forward together with suggestions for the reference of park leaders and parents to make children healthier and happier.
4 pages of preschool teachers' parenting experience exchange
The sense of responsibility has been with my work since I was a kindergarten teacher, and this feeling is slowly settling down for me. As a kindergarten teacher, some things still need to be put in place, which is also an exercise of one's ability. The feeling of taking the middle school exam is still stressful. Although children have adapted to the atmosphere of kindergarten in the second year, they don't want to be unfamiliar with the environment and feel insecure when they are in small classes. These are all gone now, but the management of children has always been like this.
In today's rapid development, I think as a kindergarten teacher, I should study more. I also know that some things need proper evaluation. I have more confidence in my ability. I saw my growth and progress. Now I am working hard to make relevant preparations day by day. Now I am also exercising myself and trying to be an excellent preschool teacher. During this time, I also encountered many problems in my work. Now I am constantly improving my work. I am also very aware that I have made great achievements in such an environment. I also realize that I need to further strengthen this point, and I will continue to improve myself and work hard. Although it takes time and energy, I am still willing to do these related jobs well.
As a kindergarten teacher, I deeply appreciate the concern of the director. I must also admit this in my works. Some things still need to be put in place, and some things still need to be clearly implemented. These details cannot be ignored. I still feel that I have done something a little insufficient. In short, this kind of work feels very bad. Such questions make me feel that I need to continue to work hard. Although I can't do some things well, I am still willing to do them well. I also saw my progress. I am convinced of this. When I get along with children, I feel that sometimes teaching work is carried out in the interaction of small games. This way can make children more acceptable. This is a promise to myself, and now I am slowly improving myself. I firmly believe that these things should be put in place. This is definitely an obvious problem that needs our attention. As preschool education, these simple tasks must be put in place. I missed my past job for a while, which really made me grow up too much. I should do something more appropriate. There is no doubt about it. Next, I will do my teaching well in a more appropriate way.