? I understand that education is not something once and for all. Many times, children are particularly forgetful, often learning a lesson at a time and forgetting it next time. Most of them, when they make a mistake, we always want to hit them twice first, and then we want to be reasonable. However, when the child was young, one of your faults was that you were reasonable, and she seemed to understand. You don't know if she really understands.
? When she made a mistake, you taught her, and after educating her, she remained silent, as low-pressure and expressionless as you. The frustration in her heart is beyond words. When interacting with her, she kept silent and asked her if there was anything wrong. She kept silent. Sometimes, I wonder if this silent resistance was caused by too much connivance before. If it's really like my brother said, would it be better to beat up directly after making a mistake, and would the child be smarter, instead of appearing a little rebellious and willful now?
Sometimes, even I am confused. I can't believe that such a young child has so many ideas and ideas, but every time she makes a mistake, her performance makes me feel powerless. I don't think I am a smart person, and education is a very sacred thing. Sometimes I'm really afraid that I didn't educate them well. The identity of parents is really not simple.
? It seems that the responsibility of parents is not so easy to shoulder. Sometimes, I really feel that I should spend more time and energy to observe my children, find out their advantages and disadvantages and communicate with them. Perhaps the first thing to do is to learn to face the mistakes made by children calmly, and then try to deal with them scientifically and reasonably.