First, pay attention to children's "health"
"Health" here refers not only to physical health, but also to children's mental health. It is necessary to cultivate the habit of starting from one's own behavior, overcome the anxiety and fear of suffering, and correct the careless habit; Work and rest on time in life, do your own thing, don't be picky about food, don't spend money indiscriminately, don't be self-centered, and stand up to criticism and setbacks. Improve children's ideological and moral quality, scientific and cultural quality and health quality.
Second, create a good family learning environment for children.
At home, I first create a good family study environment for my children and have a relatively independent and quiet study place. Treat children with a normal heart, make friends with children, make children feel at home, dispel the sense of pressure, be willing to tell you something, and be willing to complain to you if you have difficulties; The second is to adopt the method of giving priority to encouragement and supplementing criticism. Spend more time with your children and communicate more. Praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less. Everyone is lazy. It is natural for children to play, and so are we adults. After a hard day's work, you also want to have a rest, play cards and chat with friends ... so, you should not blame your children for their playfulness, but encourage them to finish their studies quickly before playing. Check homework from time to time. Check homework to let children know that we are always paying attention to him. Parents have to make sacrifices at some point. Read and watch TV with your children, so that they can feel your care and love. I believe that "what you lose will be gained", you will find that your child's heart is close to you, your child will become sensible, and you will find that what you pay is worth it. In the past, my son didn't like to communicate with me and didn't take the initiative to say anything. He didn't know when he asked, and he didn't care. He asked a lot, he slowly observed and learned to think. He always tells me what is happening at school now. The third is to cultivate a sound personality, encourage him to participate in more collective activities and enhance the sense of collective honor. For example, I suggest parents encourage their children to participate in various activities organized by the school, so that children can have a strong team spirit. Because only in activities can children feel the collective strength and their real happiness!
Third, treat children as friends, understand more, praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less.
People need to communicate, and parents and children are no exception. I think: if we can find the right time to communicate with our children, get to know each other, put ourselves in their shoes and give them more care, then this kind of effort will definitely pay off. As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. I often say to my children, "We should have no regrets, we should have a clear conscience." I don't want my children to do great things, but I want to do every little thing well. You don't care about the result, but you must pay attention to the process. When a child fails the exam, help him analyze the reasons, find the gap, and don't make similar mistakes in future exam assignments. My purpose has been achieved.
Fourth, actively cooperate with teachers and schools.
Teachers are children's knowledge givers and road guides. As parents, we must actively cooperate with teachers and schools to do a good job. Teachers are not saints, nor can they be as perfect as our parents. Teachers want every student to succeed. Imagine that there is only one child at home, and we often feel very tired and it is difficult to educate. There are dozens of children in a class, and the responsibility and difficulty should be imaginable. Only when parents actively cooperate with the school can they form the greatest synergy with the school, help their children grow up and let them get the greatest development.
Fifth, we must first treat children's academic performance correctly.
It is every parent's wish to "look forward to a child becoming a dragon and a woman becoming a phoenix". In today's era when educational achievements are measured by the enrollment rate, the essence of family education is often concealed by academic achievements. Most parents only care about the scores of middle school students, but don't know how to guide middle school students to make continuous progress and improve themselves in their studies, so as to succeed. In fact, for every student, not all students have good academic performance and high test scores, and they will certainly experience success. Success or failure depends on students' attitude towards the test results. Therefore, parents should tell their children that they should be satisfied as long as they listen attentively in class, study hard and work hard, no matter how many points they get in the final exam, as long as they are better than before. Because progress is to surpass yourself, and surpassing yourself is a kind of success.
Sixth, let children learn to be independent.
By being close to nature and contacting the society, we have broadened our horizons, cultivated our sentiments, exercised our bodies, tempered our strong character and cultivated our love for nature and human beings. He gradually learned a lot about being a man, truly realized the value of nature and life, felt the mystery of life, and began to pursue his own ideals.
Watching children change day by day, as a parent, I see it in my eyes and like it in my heart. I know that every progress she has made is inseparable from the teachers' earnest teaching, the selfless help of her classmates and the hard work of her parents. I have reason to believe that with our company and the scientific guidance of teachers, the children will grow up healthily and she will be our pride!
Feedback from kindergarten parents watching Family Education II. I gained a lot after watching this video. The most important point is the importance of family education.
In addition to children's study at school, family is also an important place for growth, which plays an irreplaceable and unparalleled role.
Children's puberty is between the ages of eleven or twelve and seventeen or eighteen. During this period, children are easily controlled by emotional brains. Children in this era have less room to vent. In our time, entertainment was going out with friends to pick something to eat, but going home was faced with cold electronic products. They are lonely and lack playmates. They are lost because the rare weekend is either in cram school or on the way to cram school. They are confused because they only know how to study and don't know where their sense of value lies.
Therefore, family education played a vital role during this period. We can use the cohesion of the family to make children feel the happiness and warmth of the family. Teach children how to solve difficulties in the face of pressure through preaching; Use the power of family environment to help children develop perseverance and will not be easily overwhelmed by pressure.
With regard to how to protect the family environment, the current family problems are family indifference, family violence and great changes at home. The third point is that the average family will not be satisfied. The first point is the family's indifference, parents' indifference to their children, letting them grow up in a free-range way and making them look free, but no one cares and is indifferent to their grades. The second point is violent conflict. Too much care for children by parents often backfires. Disagreement leads to conflict. In my opinion, the best way is to communicate more and preach less. Communication is two-way. Both sides can confide their feelings without reservation like intimate friends, while preaching is a unilateral lesson for parents. Children have long known what to know when they grow up, and they are tired of talking too much.
Family education and family environment are what every parent should protect.
Kindergarten parents' views on family education 3 Parents are children's first teachers. Everything we say and do has a profound influence on children. Family harmony and strong family atmosphere are objective conditions for a child to grow up healthily. Let children establish an independent personality from an early age, and then pay attention to their mental health development. Although the child is very young, he has strong self-esteem. Adults' words and deeds are always in their eyes and in their hearts, especially in the face of unfriendly accusations or complaints from outsiders, which will bring mental harm to children. After listening to this lecture, I have some experiences to share with you.
First, it is very necessary to have a good study and living habit, which should be reflected in the details of life.
To have good habits, we must first let children get used to thinking, give them enough freedom, and don't die too much, otherwise there will be rebellion in spirit. Be sure to start with small things when children are young, observe carefully, find bad behaviors in life in time, and correct and guide them; Give affirmation and encouragement to children's good behavior in life, make it a habit, and let children study and live with good habits.
Second, do a good job of communication with children.
In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, not only will children be more willing to talk to you, but also their language skills can be improved. Secondly, parents should learn to be friends with their children. If parents are always on top, it is difficult to make intimate friends with their children and there is no real communication. This requires parents to use their children's minds and talk to their children in a language that they can understand. Besides, be patient. There are great differences between parents and children in age, psychology, thoughts and feelings, and understanding needs a process. If you are too impatient, communication will become a bubble.
Third, we should cultivate children to read a lot.
Reading is a learning method to broaden children's horizons and acquire knowledge. It is also an entertainment that brings infinite fun to children. Therefore, we must first create a strong reading atmosphere for our children. Let reading become a way of life for him, and let children feel that reading is a very happy thing. So at home, there is always a fixed time to read books every night, no matter what kind of books, to give him a head start and create a learning atmosphere. Slowly, children also like online reading. Reading has not only become a living habit, but also become our mentor.
After listening to this lecture, I benefited a lot and deeply realized the importance of family education, a big topic of educating children. Especially in the cultivation of children's character, it is not in place. At home, controlling a child's behavior requires my consent or approval before you dare to do it, which seriously hinders his imagination. Besides, there is impatience. Because of impatience and impatience, he not only spoke ill of his children again and again, but even hit them. When he saw the helpless and wronged eyes of the child, he woke up. He's just-he's just a kid. Experts say well: once a parent, you will always be a teacher, so from now on, start from yourself and every little thing, let the child have an independent personality and good habits, communicate with the child fairly, let him grow up happily and healthily, and let him become a knowledgeable person and a useful person to society.
Kindergarten parents' views on family education. Children's education is the most concerned and confusing issue for parents. After listening to Professor xx's lecture today, I fully realized the importance of family education. Educating children should start with the education of parents and families. Parents should set an example and actively cultivate their children to form good habits from an early age. Children have strong plasticity, and childhood is the golden age of education. Grasping this important period is very important for a child and even a family. By listening to today's lecture, I have the following experiences:
First of all, parents should attach importance to family education.
Parents are children's first teachers, and children are most likely to imitate their parents' words and deeds. Only by organically combining family education with school education can they receive the best educational effect. Every five days in school, teachers consciously cultivate children's character, conduct, will and interests. And children are easy to accept and grow up. However, in the past two days on weekends, children are easily spoiled by their parents at home, and they have no regular study and life. After five days, they forget the good habits cultivated at school. Only when parents realize the importance of family education and take the initiative to do it well, can children grow up healthily, grow into towering trees that shelter from the wind and rain, and become the pillars of society.
Second, parents should set an example.
Children need to develop good study and life habits, which are most influenced by their parents. You told your children not to throw clothes about, but you left them on the sofa when you got home, and you kept asking them to tidy up their clothes. Will the children do as you say? Children are not allowed to watch TV and play games online, but when children are doing their homework, parents are staring at loud TV programs or sitting in front of the computer and playing all kinds of games selflessly. What do children think and how do they feel balanced? Therefore, parents should set an example and ask their children not to do it. First of all, they should not do it themselves. The best way is to accompany the children to do their homework, or when the children are doing their homework, parents can read books, newspapers and do some housework quietly, so that the children can feel that their parents are not at leisure when doing their homework, so that the children will have a sense of balance and be willing to do their homework.
Third, strengthen communication with children.
Parents should communicate with their children more, even if they are busy, they should spare some time to talk, chat and tell stories with their children. In parent-child communication, we should pay attention to scientific methods: First, we should be good at listening. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. Children tell you happy things, you should be happy; When a child tells you unhappy things, you should let him vent and show sympathy. When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. In this way, children will be willing to talk to you, and parents can learn more about their inner world.
Fourth, learn to appreciate your children.
Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. Encourage and appreciate children more, and constantly cultivate their self-confidence, self-improvement, self-esteem and self-reliance. Appreciation is love for children. If our parents can find the advantages of their children with loving eyes and point out and correct their shortcomings in the right way, "You can do it" and "You are great", with the encouragement of their parents, many children will change and grow up happily. Don't criticize a child just because he didn't get a high score in the first exam. Encourage him to say "He did well in the exam" and "He did well in the exam", help him analyze the reasons why he didn't do it right or well, find ways to do it, and don't be helpless when encountering such problems next time. Appreciating children will bring them happy motivation and upward self-confidence. The secret is that it removes the huge stone of inferiority that is pressing on the child's heart, so the child's potential erupts like a volcano.
Fifth, create a good learning environment for children.
Environment can easily change a person, especially a child. Some people say that children's brains are fertile soil, and weeds will grow if crops are not planted. This shows the importance of the environment to children's growth. Husband and wife love and family harmony will make children feel the existence of love and the warmth of home. The affection between parents and children is irreplaceable by any affection. Parents should cherish this affection. A harmonious family has a positive influence on children. Only when children live in a loving family will they have the interest and motivation to learn, and they will know how to love others and society. Parents should always read books and newspapers, so that children can feel that reading books and newspapers is a very happy thing. After a long time, children will naturally like to learn.
Children are the only parents. Parents have the responsibility and obligation to educate and train their children well. They don't want their children to make great achievements in the future. They just want their children to grow up healthily and happily, with self-confidence and self-improvement, independent personality, interest in learning, enthusiasm for life and love for others and society.
Kindergarten parents' views on family education 5 1. The growth of parents is more important than the study of children.
Children are the hope of every family, so we pay more attention to children, their achievements and their daily life. It is precisely because of excessive attention that many unconscious problems are caused, and our good intentions often fail to achieve the expected results. After listening to teacher Zhang's lecture, I was enlightened. In fact, children are far better than we thought. We neglect our own growth and study, causing a certain degree of anxiety.
2. It is more important to pay attention to children's mental health and setbacks.
In daily life, pay attention to setting a good family style and example. What kind of person do you want your children to be? Do it yourself first. Be good at learning, understand the law of children's development and infiltrate positive energy. Family harmony is the guarantee of children's healthy growth. Love yourself, love your family, maintain the positive image of your spouse in front of your children, create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere, and make your children feel safe and happy. Educate children about setbacks, put an end to overindulgence, and teach them not to hurt themselves, the environment or others under any circumstances. Let children know that mistakes will be punished.
3. Learn to truly love children.
Because I know that I am merciful! There are no parents who don't love their children, but are we doing this right? Do the same thing with your child at the same time and in the same space, and have real companionship. Change your own ideas, get rid of anxiety habits, change language patterns, and strive to cultivate children with interesting minds, good health and exploratory spirit, rather than obedient children.