Four educational methods

Article 1: Never spoil children too much.

We must learn to use children: spoiling older children means that their ability to solve problems will be weak, while using older children is a kind of character;

From the time children learn to walk, let them throw a garbage and hand something; The more children use, the more responsible they are, and the more they use, the more capable they are. Parents should never interfere with anything their children can do by themselves.

Children should participate in family affairs, big or small, because the more parents do, the slower the children grow up. The more children do, the faster they will learn to think independently in the future.

Rule 2: Don't speak ill of your lover in front of your children.

Whether you quarrel or argue with your lover in life, always remember to say good things about each other in front of your children. Create your other half in front of your children, instead of tearing each other apart.

Never speak ill of your husband in front of you today and your wife tomorrow.

Only when you better shape the other half in front of children can children have respect for both parents, and children must follow their parents' example. Children who have no role models will have no goals in the future.

Children must regard their mother as the harbor of their hearts. People who have no spiritual sustenance will be introverted and bullied when they grow up. They should spend more time with their children and spend more time with them.

When a child makes a mistake, don't let the father educate and the mother get in the way, which will indulge the child. Small mistakes and misunderstandings are ignored, and big mistakes and misunderstandings follow.

Rule 3: A mother should not only look at her children.

In your family, you should remember that your husband is more important than your children. Don't let children feel that they are the center of the universe.

Smart women must put the relationship between husband and wife first and the relationship between parents and children second.

After having children, many women turn their faces completely, and turn around the children every day, completely ignoring the existence of your husband and the intimate relationship between you and your husband, which leads to the family being in jeopardy.

Marriage problems are getting more and more serious, so remember that only your husband can have your children, a good wife and a good mother, first a good wife and then a good mother.

Article 4: Raising children must be "poor"

Both men and women should never be materially satisfied with their children;

Some parents suffered a lot when they were young, and now they earn some money, fearing that their children will suffer as they did when they were young.

Therefore, children need whatever they want, buy whatever they want and satisfy whatever they want.

Children who get things too easily will form the habit of living beyond their means. When they grow up, they will gradually lose their interest and ability to make money, and they will not know what is precious and hard-won, so they just drown their children like killing them.

Parents must tell their children that a better life must be created by your own hands and your own real skills. What parents give is called background, and what they lay is called Jiangshan ~