Zhu Yongxin's Eight Concepts of Family Education 1. Family education is the most error-prone place.
First, most of our parents have no special training. Parents' different languages, behaviors and education will leave different marks on their children, and parents without special training will inevitably make mistakes.
Secondly, parents' psychology of expecting their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed easily leads to deviation in family education. It is inevitably unrealistic for parents to turn to their children for help for what they have not achieved or done.
Thirdly, many parent neglect their educational responsibilities. Because the focus of social attention is school education, parents pay more attention to school education, ignoring that they are the real educational foundation and the key to determining the fate of their children. Ignorance of educational responsibility and bias of educational ideas naturally lead to mistakes in family education.
Second, without the growth of parents, there will be no growth of children.
It is said that parents are role models for children. Usually, behind the excellent children grow into outstanding talents, there is always a shadow of a warm and harmonious family; Similarly, individuals who form imperfect personalities can also find factors full of conflicts and contradictions from their families.
In a learning family, parents and children grow up together and even influence each other. They often have some successful influence ways, such as parent-child reading, parent-child communication, telling growth stories and so on. The growth of parents, like the growth of children, is an endless process. Parents keep making progress and learning, and their influence is intangible and far-reaching.
Third, morality is more important than learning, and realm is greater than method.
1. The important task of family education is to build the Great Wall of Personality. The person you meet in life is often a handsome man who covers up all ugliness. High score, good grades, is a good boy. In fact, among the factors that affect lifelong development, scores are not the most important. It is morality, personality, happiness, popularity and respect, not knowledge. Many parents care too much about their studies. As long as they do well in the exam, they promise everything, but their moral character is low but they are ignored. Such educational ideas and methods are worrying.
2. Life destroys people silently, just like a drop of water wears away a stone; Similarly, life makes people silent. Only by paying attention to the details and progress of life and becoming the master of life can we be achieved by life. The new educational experiment has a slogan:? State is greater than method, and method is greater than effort. ? Reality is just the opposite, right? Effort is greater than method, and method is greater than state? . In fact, the biggest gap between people is the state. With the state, there is a method. If you are in a state and you want to do something, you may succeed.
Fourth, return childhood to children.
People often think that children nowadays have no childhood and no happiness. As long as you enter school, you will have no good life. Happiness is an experience, and enjoying the happiness of education is a realm of education. Why not let children learn in games, activities and play? Why is learning locked in the study?
5. Infinitely believe in the potential of children's development
1. Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure. If you want your children to do it, cherish every opportunity for their growth, appreciate their growth, and appreciate their words and deeds; If you can't have children, complain and blame them
2. The potential of children is always greater than everything that has been achieved. Modern scientific research has long proved that human potential is enormous. Let us believe in the potential of children's development infinitely!
Sixth, let children have their own things.
Parents must not neglect the cultivation of non-intelligence when cultivating their children's intelligence. They want the younger generation to have lofty goals, broad interests, warm feelings, strong will and independent personality.
Education should give children what they like, so that even if they don't get into college, they will have a healthy and happy life. Every child can have a different growth path, so that he likes the same things, which will affect the quality of life of children. Whether a person's spiritual life is happy is very important.
Seven, let reading become a way of life for children.
Reading is a very important way for children to purify their souls and sublimate their personality. When children grow up, their main task is reading. But nowadays students seldom read books except textbooks. Generally speaking, children who read a lot will have a broad vision, full spirit, lofty aspirations and persistent pursuit. A person's spiritual development history is the person's reading history.
A person who doesn't study can't go far. Whether he studies or not has nothing to do with whether he graduated from college. Books are real universities and paradise for spiritual growth.
Quiet can go further. The life of a scholar is not necessarily rich, but he may be spiritually rich.
Eight, let the diary grow with the children.
Keeping a diary is a good habit. By keeping a diary, children can think deeply about their study and life. They can be trained to observe life, master language and improve their writing level. Can let children talk about their feelings and adjust their emotions; Can cultivate independent personality and the ability to handle things independently; It can exercise his will, broaden his mind and purify his mind. Because if you want to write brilliantly, you must live brilliantly and do brilliantly.
Celebrity education children 10 training 1. Political family: ten training courses for Kennedy family to educate their children? This is dedicated to parents who want to overcome poverty and dream of becoming a political family from generation to generation.
1. Make your own child-rearing diary and reading records, and then check them thoroughly.
2. Help children develop the good habit of observing time.
Parents should always tell their children stories about his career.
4. Form a natural and harmonious discussion atmosphere when eating.
5. teach children? The person who wins the first place will not be ignored? The laws of the world
6. When children encounter difficulties, parents should help them solve the problems from the children's point of view.
7. Let children study in famous universities, so that they can get the best connections.
8. Let the children understand that the initial clumsiness and discomfort should be perfected through repeated efforts.
9. Tell children to set lofty goals, but don't be impatient, and they must succeed step by step.
10. Parents, brothers and sisters should form a good family atmosphere of harmony and mutual assistance.
Second, Sweden's richest man: ten lessons for the Wallenberg family to educate their children? This is dedicated to parents who want to raise their children into respectable millionaires or CEOs.
1. serve in the navy and cultivate perseverance.
2. Broaden your horizons by studying in world-renowned universities and working in multinational companies.
3. Establish international contacts
4. Observe and attach importance to the principle of transmission from generation to generation.
5. Take it from society and apply it to society.
6. Take a walk with the children every Sunday morning.
7. The younger brother wears clothes worn by his older brother again, thus forming a frugal lifestyle.
8. Don't act rashly and avoid sharp-edged behavior.
9. Grandpa, as his grandson's life mentor, teaches wisdom and experience (intergenerational education).