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How should parents educate disobedient children?
Girls do not do their homework well. It's no use being punished by mother for selling balloons. Parents have gone too far, and even think that parents can know that this punishment is very difficult for him by watching the performance of girls extremely. Say it briefly. The girl didn't do her homework well because she was fined for selling balloons. How does she study the next day? Isn't this nonsense?

It is common for children not to do their homework well. How should parents handle this kind of thing correctly? First of all, parents should understand that it is normal and normal for children to be disobedient, and we should treat this phenomenon rationally. Adjust your mentality and emotions, avoid getting angry, and solve problems, so as not to say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, and hurt your child and parent-child relationship.

Secondly, parents should find a reward and punishment method suitable for their children. The purpose of rewards and punishments is not to end mistakes. It is to guide children to recognize and correct their mistakes. Parents can't just focus on the form and ignore the fundamental purpose. If the child really corrected the mistake, then the big warning of the town is also possible.

Finally, parents should talk calmly with their children, understand their inner feelings, give comfort in time to alleviate their negative emotions, let them understand their parents' real intentions, and use a gentle educational method to make students grow up healthily. If the child is disobedient, parents must come up with corresponding measures, education or punishment. As long as it is suitable for children and conducive to students' growth, you can try it. If growth is a compulsory course for children and parents, then parents should follow their children's growth and change their educational strategies. Instead of sticking to the rules, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is the best way