As we all know, four-year-old boys are more sensible than before and have their own independent thinking ability. They may not be as obedient as before, so parents should be stricter with four-year-old boys and let them know what is right, what is wrong, what can and cannot be done. The content of this article is the education of four-year-old boys.

Education for four-year-old boys 1 In the face of children's illegal behavior, parents' response should be consistent with words and deeds, calm and quick.

Giving orders from a distance is a common mistake made by many parents when educating their children. They just verbally clamored for what to do, such as "don't do that, I told you not to do that, I mean what I say!" " And so on, but never put into practice. Parents should always remember that actions speak louder than words.

Establish/make rules

For 4-year-old children, we can make a list of rules for their most troublesome behaviors, such as fighting with children and being rude. For 4-year-old children, we can make no more than 5 rules.

Be prepared to reiterate the rules again and again.

Judging from the growth characteristics of a four-year-old boy, at his age, parents should say it at least a hundred times if they want to be obedient.

Determine the consequences of the violation

Parents should clearly explain the consequences of violations, such as not enjoying certain "benefits" for a short time. When children break the rules, they will immediately carry out the consequences of their actions, without warning, bargaining or giving them a second chance. If they are made to think that there is room for negotiation, they will not take the rules seriously.

Rules should be fair and reasonable.

Maintain reasonable expectations. If your 4-year-old boy can't sit still at the dinner table, usually the child will be more stable at the age of 6 than at the age of 4. They will behave much better when they are old.

Four-year-old boys are more active and independent than girls, so in the process of educating their children, parents should have enough patience and corresponding countermeasures to make their children obedient, and parents should not impose too many restrictions on boys of this age. As long as they are right, they can let their children do it.

Education of a 4-year-old boy 2 1. Create opportunities for him to play the role of "protector"

When I get home from work every day, I feel tired and want to sleep, but I still have to deal with my son's "entanglement", but I understand that it is unrealistic for him to understand your hard work at this stage. So I said to him gently, "Mom is tired. Can you lend me your shoulder?" My son didn't know ... so, but he thought it was very interesting, so he tilted his head to one side and leaned his little shoulder against me. He said seriously, "Mom, aren't you tired of leaning on my shoulder?" I squatted down, leaned my head gently on his shoulder and said appreciatively, "Yes! My son is a man and will protect his mother when he grows up. " The son grinned. My son will always be my "protector" in the future, proud!

You can be unhappy, but you can't lose your temper casually.

Some children tear, bite and lose their temper when they are unhappy. Once this kind of behavior becomes a habit, they will not know how to control it when something happens. I told my son, "You can say it when you are unhappy, but never lose your temper." But it needs more than just language. Therefore, I was careful not to lose my temper in front of the children. Take me for example, my son seldom makes trouble.

3, the consequences are good and bad.

Learn to bear the consequences when you are young, and you will be responsible when you grow up. I pay great attention to let my son consciously learn this in small things. For example, when my son throws a picture book on the ground when he is angry, I will never help him pick it up, nor will my family be allowed to pick it up. It doesn't matter if he refused to answer it at that time, just leave the book on the ground. When he pestered me to tell a story, I said to him, "didn't you throw away the book?" Mom can't tell you. "At this time, my son began to worry, and quickly picked up the book himself.