As far as temperament itself is concerned, there is no difference between good and bad. Every temperament type has the possibility of developing into a positive or negative quality. Everyone may become a person with good character and high morality, or a person with bad character and low morality. With proper education, people of all temperament types can become talents. Every temperament has positive and negative factors. For example, children with "brave" characteristics are easy to form brave, cheerful and enterprising qualities, but they are easy to be careless and rude; Children with "sanguine" characteristics are easy to form lively, alert and sociable qualities, but they are easy to produce frivolous, unrealistic and insincere feelings. Children with "mucus" characteristics are easy to form stable, firm and practical qualities, but they are also easy to become indifferent and stubborn; Children with the characteristics of "depression" are easy to be cautious and obedient, but they are also easy to be suspicious, timid and withdrawn. Therefore, the key for parents is to understand their children's temperament types, carry out different education and training in a targeted manner, prevent children from having negative qualities, and consciously guide their children to develop in a positive way.

2. According to the different temperament types of children, adopt practical education methods.

After understanding the characteristics of children's temperament types, it is necessary to adopt practical educational methods for children's different temperament types and performance characteristics.

(1) choleric children are energetic, positive and enthusiastic, like to talk and love activities. At the same time, this type of people are nosy, troublesome, impatient and careless. Therefore, if we treat children with bile, we should remind them to observe discipline and restrain their behavior; When criticizing them, we should pay attention to the tone and language of criticism, don't scold them loudly, and don't provoke them. For example, if you yell at your child's messy homework, you may throw it away in a rage, or simply leave it and go out to play.

Usually, we should pay attention to maintaining a quiet and harmonious family atmosphere, treat this type of children calmly, but strictly, talk to them calmly and don't make any noise, so as to overcome the characteristics of children's restlessness and impatience. And pay attention to let children do some meticulous manual and quiet games, such as origami, painting, building blocks, playing chess and so on. Focus on cultivating children's patience and rational thinking, so as to hone and cultivate children's patience and meticulous habits. Parents can appropriately "delay meeting" his reasonable demands and wishes, so that children can learn to wait, so as to cultivate their patience and self-control ability. Of course, we should also carry out reasonable and appropriate physical activities to release our energy, but don't take part in too active training, so as not to enhance our activity. Be quiet if you can.

If this kind of child is not well educated, it is easy to form bad characters such as willfulness, rudeness, belligerence and aggressive behavior.

(2) Hot-blooded children are generally kind and enthusiastic to people and are not shy when they meet strangers. They can often take the initiative to talk to people, which is what we usually call "self-invited familiarity". They are good at making friends and often have many friends; Not afraid to speak in class, the language is vivid and fluent. I am easygoing and easy to communicate. However, these children tend to be inattentive, easily distracted, impetuous and unrealistic, anticlimactic and afraid of suffering.

For this type of children, our family atmosphere should be peaceful and happy. Our parents treat their children with kindness and care. We can give them more tasks, ask them to do more patient work, play more games to cultivate and train their attention, and gradually extend the time to make them more practical. But we should pay attention to starting from the simple, step by step, and gradually becoming complex. We must finish things, finish them and check them. We should start checking them every day and gradually turn them into spot checks. If there is progress, we must affirm and praise them. When things are done, ask them to describe the process in words. In order to gradually overcome the characteristics of anticlimactic and impetuous, and gradually develop an organized mode of thinking, do more detailed housework, and develop the quality of hard work. When encountering problems, we should "move with emotion and reason", and we can't force them or let them drift.

If this type of children are not well educated, it is easy to form bad personalities such as unstable attention, fear of hardship, anticlimactic and impetuous.

(3) Mucinous children are generally stable, unobtrusive and have little mood swings. They smile when they are praised, and they don't make excuses when they are criticized. Move slowly and follow the rules. Generally speaking, this type of children appear quiet, disciplined and obedient, and will not cause trouble. They are more focused, have a certain persistence in doing things, and are not easily affected by the surrounding stimuli. These are all advantages. Disadvantages are old-fashioned, stubborn, not talkative, not too concerned about others, and relatively indifferent.

We should maintain a relaxed, lively and humorous family atmosphere for children with mucus, show special cordial concern to them, and more importantly, encourage and educate them patiently. When pointing out their shortcomings and mistakes, we should give them more time to think and prevent them from sticking to their own opinions. Play more sensitive and fast games with them, limit time to guide them, and constantly overcome the characteristics of slow movement. Encourage and guide them to accept new and exciting things, let children participate more, so as to gradually change the conservative characteristics, encourage and guide them to talk more at ordinary times, describe and narrate more, and guide them to deal with the outside world, so as to stimulate children's desire to perform, so as to gradually change the characteristics of children who don't like to talk, and also participate in collective activities to establish team consciousness and collectivism consciousness. Encourage and participate in sports and active training. One thing to note is that if you take part in new activities or change your life, you need to inform them in advance so that they can have an adaptation process.

Because mucinous children are generally quiet, disciplined and reasonable, it is easy for adults to relax their education. If this kind of child