If children are often despised, belittled or accused in public, they will have inferiority, lack of confidence in themselves, timidity and timidity. At the same time, children's sense of shame will also encourage children's dishonesty and willfulness. Children are bound to make mistakes, and it is impossible without education.

Attach importance to and protect children's self-esteem

Parents should pay attention to and protect their children's self-esteem, respect their children, understand their children and try their best to meet their reasonable requirements. When you can't see them, you must tell the truth clearly.

Reasoning rather than reprimanding.

When children have shortcomings and mistakes, parents should first understand the situation, then reason according to the facts and conduct appropriate criticism and education. Criticism should pay attention to discretion and occasions, and try to avoid making children's mistakes public.

Suppress emotions

When parents are angry, it is better to restrain their emotions first, and then tell the truth to their children in kind language after their children calm down, so that they can realize where they are wrong. This is much better than simply reprimanding their children.