It seems that when I grow up, I can't live without these awesome children from other people's families, but the direction of parents' education is not the same. I have seen friends talk about their children, and then when they talk about children, they use "Look at XXX, why can't you learn from him?" Is it a bad thing to make yourself better? "
When I heard this sentence at that time, I thought, Wow, it's so quality. It is simply an angel in the hearts of parents. Why didn't my parents do this when I was a child? I don't want jealous people.
What I experienced most when I was a child was "Look at others, why is he better than you?" You still know how to play every day, just a loser, avoiding me, what to do! "
When I first heard this sentence, I didn't care too much because I was young, and then I really went to do what I should do, fighting. These things were really done when I was a child. But who would have thought that this kind of education has continued until now. There seems to be some mysterious inheritance.
When I was in primary school, the exam was not ideal. Others may be encouraged. I am a loser. Don't go to school next time I don't do well in the exam. This is a waste of money. If you don't do well in the exam again, go herding sheep, because herding sheep can still support yourself. Don't go to school if you don't do well in the exam again. Find a place where no one is around and slap yourself.
So spoiled, I went to junior high school. It's amazing that I really don't want to go to school again in the first grade. Whatever I do, I don't want to go. I really won't go that day. No one at home will scold me. Just ask me. Don't regret not going to bed. I'm just rebellious. I'm happy. I can't regret it.
When I first entered the society, I did all kinds of part-time jobs because I was young and hard to find a job, and then I started ... why can people find a good job without it? Why are you acting like a fly every day these days?
It was really going to explode, why! Not at all! Everyone's jobs are found at home! What did you do besides scold me? I am a loser. I admit it myself, okay?
In this way, under the trampling education, I also grew up and got married. But? Haha, there is still this way around me, but it is not as harsh as when I was a child. Maybe I'm used to it. When I am old, I think they are actually quite cute.
Why are you cursing? Because they are often powerless, they want to help you and don't know where to help or how to help. Even some of these parents get angry with themselves when they scold. Who doesn't want their children to be strong?
Be strong if you don't want to be scolded. If you don't, you won't offend anyone, and it's cool. Then scold. So what I have been trying to enlighten myself is, why are you being scolded? There must be something wrong. Just change it! I don't believe I will be scolded for this next time.
How about trampling on education? Actually, it's really bad. It really hurts self-esteem. If you are weak, you will really fall into the hands of your family. But you said he was bad, right? He's really great. He has been tempering your self-esteem since he was a child. Although I have always felt inferior in front of people at home, I am quite confident outside.
Because in trampling on education, there is usually a saying, "If you mix well, you mix well. If you can't hang out, come back. How big can it be? " Don't worry day by day, see how happy you are every day! "
Summary: "Don't go against your parents. Their original intention is not to hurt their children. They are just watering you in their own way. When you slowly start to grow up, you will find that they seem to be unable to stand up straight. I will scold you and hug you. When you grow up and they are old, one day, you really can't see them. Don't wait until then to think that they are relatives. At that time, everything was late! "