Method 1: Parents should give their children proper sex education.
When children enter adolescence, parents can also carry out some appropriate sex, love and marriage education, and take precautions against puppy love first. Parents should not panic when they find signs of puppy love. They should give enthusiastic help and reason to their children. You can tell them: Goethe, a great German poet, once said, "Handsome men don't love girls." It is common for children at this stage to like a certain opposite sex, but this kind of love can only be maintained at the level of friendship, not "love". And tell children why they can't fall in love early, teach them self-esteem, distinguish the relationship between friendship and love, and appropriately tell them the social morality, power and responsibility of love, so that children can have a further understanding of love and marriage.
Treatment 2: Understand and care about children's puppy love.
Parents should not treat their children's puppy love rudely and simply. If a child is found to be in puppy love, and the child is emotionally excited about the object he loves, parents should not sneer, scold or even punish the child, nor peek at the child's letter, follow up and monitor the child, and don't rush to school or the other person's home, which will cause a storm in the city. This will only backfire.
The best way is to understand children, be considerate of children and use the method of "cold treatment". Take the methods of "jumping", "freezing" and "dividing". Because when children have the feeling of love, longing and excitement, they will also be distressed by sadness, social environment pressure and even sexual desire. Parents should not only have an insight into their children's inner feelings, but also guide them from the side. They should listen to their children patiently, give them warm and serious advice, let them "jump out" and freeze their feelings. They should tell their children that less than 3% of junior and senior high school students finally "get married" and there is little possibility of success. Puppy love has an influence on middle school students' study. Try to "separate" the two children and have less contact. Parents' education should be gentle and drizzly, and they should have a certain serious attitude, and they should not complain about others. It takes some time to help children get out of the confusion of "puppy love".
Treatment 3: Parents should encourage their children to participate in activities beneficial to physical and mental health.
In order to divert their attention and vent their abundant energy. Colorful campus group activities, off-campus travel, making friends, public welfare work, etc. Not only can you exercise, but you can also improve your intelligence and health. At the same time, encourage children to develop personal hobbies according to their personal interests, such as collecting stamps, reading world famous works and practicing writing and submitting articles, so that their spare time is full of interest and happiness. Perhaps, the emotion of "puppy love" will be weakened and transferred appropriately.
Solution 4: Parents strive to create a warm family for their children.
Many children have puppy love, which is often due to the lack of parental care. Therefore, parents can make efforts to make the family a warm and harmonious paradise and make their children feel safe. Be a good teacher and friend to your children, and don't intensify contradictions. If you find your child puppy love, you should analyze the reasons and solve the problem.
Method 5: Parents should communicate with their children more.
Actively communicate with children emotionally. Don't ask how to learn at first. How's the grade? What's the ranking? You can start with other aspects of life and topics that children are interested in. The communication between parents and children can help children open their hearts and talk about the problems he or she has encountered in puppy love. Of course, if the child is willing, he can solve the problem with her and let the child build more trust under the guidance of his parents.
Solution 6: Keep the closest contact with the school.
Parents should not relax, make a fuss or be embarrassed when children are puppy love. Keep close cooperation with the school in time, put down face, communicate actively and cooperate with teachers, and the problem will be solved.