Family education is an indispensable part of children's growth. Parents' words and deeds, family atmosphere, criticism and punishment will have an important impact on children's growth. This paper will provide some suggestions for parents to cultivate excellent children from these three aspects.

example is better than precept

Parents should be role models for their children, pay attention to self-cultivation and establish prestige. In daily life, we should always pay attention to our words and deeds, so as to teach by example.

Create a good family atmosphere

Children need a quiet and active learning environment. Parents should avoid unnecessary chatting or gathering when their children are studying. We should tolerate children's shortcomings and treat them with appreciation. Unconditional trust in children is an important basis for establishing good communication with children.

Appropriate criticism and punishment

Criticism and punishment are necessary means to correct children's wrong thoughts and behaviors. When criticizing and punishing, we should fully understand the situation and make clear the nature and severity of children's wrong thoughts and behaviors. By pointing out the harm and ideological roots of mistakes, let children realize their mistakes and have the determination to correct them.