Reflections on reading "Don't lose in family education" 1 I recently ordered a book in kindergarten > After reading this book, I felt a lot. Some of the examples cited in this book are encountered in our lives, and some are close to our lives. Examples of how parents should educate their children from various aspects have helped me a lot, making me realize that as a parent, I still have many misunderstandings and shortcomings in educating my children, and I also know the importance of family education.

I used to spend all my energy on how to make my child eat and dress well, try not to make him sick, buy books, buy building blocks and buy toys, and try to make him happy. Every time I find a child's bad habits, I always think that the child is disobedient, and I have never reviewed my own shortcomings. Looking back now, I find that I really need to reflect on my handling methods. Once, I was a little upset because I was in a bad mood. When the little guy makes trouble for no reason, I get angry and yell at him I am impatient. As a result, the more you cry, the more meaningless it is. I was angry and put him in the bathroom. Afterwards, I regretted it. Is it too rude to my children? Sometimes I want to know what methods will better educate my children, and sometimes I am worried. Educating my children is a distressing thing. I really don't know how to start.

In fact, family education is really important. Now every family is basically an only child, and the living conditions are much better than when we were young. At home, it is inevitable to spoil and accommodate the children, and try to meet the reasonable or unreasonable requirements of the children. Parents don't let their babies do things, either because they are worried about meeting them here or where they will be hurt, so that they have poor independence and rely on adults. In fact, babies have a strong desire to learn and learn, and can observe and imitate the actions of adults. Take my little guy for example. Every night these days, he will fold clothes and pants gracefully and help me fold clothes. Tell me this is a skill taught by kindergarten teachers. I'm really happy for his progress. Through this incident, I realized that family education must be synchronized with kindergarten education. As the book says, parents should create a good family environment for their babies, actively create conditions, cultivate their independence and develop good living habits. Now we try our best to do what our children can do every day. Although some things are still awkward to do, as long as you persist, even if you only change a little at a time, you will encourage and affirm him, increase his self-confidence and grow up in constant improvement and progress.

As a child's first teacher, parents should be teachers, improve their own quality and set an example. Can't bring emotions to children. You must be patient, calm and guide them correctly. Family education is to let your children know how to treat others sincerely, be filial to the elderly, respect others, be considerate and tolerant, have a sense of responsibility and love. Parents' attitudes towards life, ideas and cultural attainments always affect their children. Children's words and deeds truly reflect their attitude towards raising children. "Children are the mirror of parents" is through the daily life of parents.

By reading this book, I know that family education can't be replaced by any education. To be a qualified parent, we should constantly learn how to cultivate children's knowledge and experience and update our educational concept. Children are growing every day, and the problems are constantly changing. We are constantly improving ourselves while cultivating our children. Don't lose in family education is a very meaningful book. The key is that we should read, experience and care for every step of children's growth, so that children can grow up healthily.

Reflections on reading "Don't lose in family education" 2 In today's era, the factors affecting the composition of children's conduct are becoming more and more complicated. However, in the process of children's moral constitution, the role of family education can not be underestimated, and parents' moral behavior standards determine and influence children's behavior principles to a considerable extent. Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. We have instilled this idea in our child since she was very young. For example, please invite your grandparents before eating and eat together when everyone arrives. In the past, children liked to put their favorite dishes in front of me, which was of course very bad. Once I bought a lot of things I love to eat, put them in front of me and ate them with relish. My daughter was very wronged when she saw it. I said I learned it from you. Of course, I buy what I like. If you don't think of others, how can others think of you? Ask her: Do you think good things should be shared? She listened and bowed her head. From then on, she knew that only by being kind to others can she win others' goodwill towards herself, and she learned to care for others with compassion. My parents are old and often have some shortcomings. When the old man is sick, we take good care of him, leaving the child aside and letting her do some small things that she can. The child gradually learned to take care of others. Last year, the child's grandfather was ill, and the child would take the initiative to be his grandfather's nurse every Saturday. She imitated my previous movements, washed my grandfather's feet and beat his back, and read newspapers and told stories to the elderly.

After reading the book Don't Lose in Family Education, I know that what we have done is far from enough. If you want to be a qualified parent, you must constantly improve your own quality, update your family education concept, and master superstitious family education knowledge and methods. We deeply understand that parents should assist their children, let them learn how to behave and let them continue to behave badly. The cultivation of personality and conduct is an extremely long process. The persistent pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty, ardent enthusiasm and frank feelings will always be the strength of our parents' personality. We require our children to be honest, sincere, natural, upright, honest, frank and cruel. I must do it first. As the German educator Freud Bell said: The fate of children is in the hands of parents. Let's join hands as parents, do everything for children, hold up tomorrow's sun, create a happy life for children and create a bright future for the Chinese nation.

After reading "Don't lose in family education", I feel that there is a sentence "How to be a qualified mother" in the book "Don't lose in family education", which has aroused my deep thought. It is difficult to define the word "qualified". We don't have conclusive data to judge how much influence a mother has on the formation of a child's character, but we can feel something from the words of great men. Napoleon said: "A child's good or bad depends entirely on his mother. He believes that his achievements in life are largely due to his mother's tempering of his will, strength and self-control. His mother made him love, respect and obey himself in many gentle, strict and measured ways. Napoleon learned to obey from his mother. "

Goethe also attributed his hobbies and personality to his mother. They say that his mother is a clever woman. She is lively and full of maternal wisdom. She has the spirit and strength to inspire children to form a positive attitude, so I think the greatness of a mother lies not only in the life she gives her children, but also in her cultivation and care for life. It is difficult to be a mother, and it is even more difficult to be a good mother. Now there is a saying in psychology to measure whether a mother is a good mother, that is, "it is not good to give too much, it is not good to give too little, and it is best to give enough." What you give is completely voluntary and acceptable to children. " Mother's education for children is both a science and an art, so what should be done to be a good mother?

First of all, I think we should know more and ask less. Understanding must be based on understanding. The mother is the closest person to the child, so I want to know the child comprehensively and objectively, understand his learning situation, understand his communication with others, patiently listen to the child's thoughts and listen to his voice, so as to understand the child's true feelings. We should "let ourselves live happily, change ourselves more and complain less about the environment" as advocated by educator Wei Shusheng.

Secondly, there are more praises and less criticisms. Speaking of praise, we all know that praise can make people work miracles. Too much criticism will lead children to blame themselves too much, grow up with children and feel the small changes of children. This should be the best thing in their lives, so in the process of children's growth, mothers should give timely encouragement and more praise In fact, both teachers and mothers in other industries are strict with their children. Too much criticism, but I don't know that the weapon to destroy one's self-confidence is constant criticism and constant fault. Therefore, in the process of educating children, we need to praise more and criticize less, so that children can raise their self-confident sails and face life every day with a self-reliant attitude.

This semester, I was lucky enough to read a book "Be a Happy Teacher" edited by Teacher Wang Sanyang, which made me deeply realize the harvest and happiness of cultivating with pen, sowing with language, watering with sweat and nourishing with painstaking efforts. In my impression, the school is a sacred temple, and teachers can understand the reading experience. When I enter the classroom as a teacher, I expect to build a sacred temple in the students' hearts. An unforgettable hall for my students is full of creative spirituality, laughter, humanistic care, wisdom enlightenment and personality shaping! In the practice of education and teaching, I have constantly explored and obtained some effective teaching methods. With the constant revision of my educational concept, I have realized more and more deeply that students should "practice true knowledge" if they want to learn well. Reflecting on the initial confusion, isn't it because students didn't really participate in the study and didn't have fun in it, so they will get twice the result with half the effort? It is not enough for teachers to work hard. As the main body of education, students must be really mobilized, actively participate in the "practice" of learning and life, explore methods in learning, and gain fun and experience while gaining knowledge. Learn to explore, discover, appreciate, evaluate, sympathize and understand. After all, this hall is built for students, and only students really like it! I have identified the road under my feet and worked conscientiously: enlightening my mind with truth, goodness and beauty, and tirelessly transplanting the genes of science and civilization to students. Integrate singing and happiness into students' bones. This made me realize that the teacher's life is shining on the podium, and the world is intertwined with bitterness and joy, sadness and joy, loss and holiness! To achieve spiritual sublimation: to win the talents of the world and teach them, joy and joy, sadness and joy, loss and holiness are intertwined! Yes, the profession of teacher is ordinary and trivial, and the life of teacher is poor and hard. However, we also see that teachers always have a dawn smile on their faces. It is precisely because teachers are willing to be like a green leaf, silently achieving the glory of fruits that today's peaches and plums are all over the world ... A former teacher said: The job of a teacher is a rare pure land. If you can add more happiness to your glory, it is worth going on. Speaking of it, the profession of teacher has given us a lot, such as a reserved attitude, a relatively stable life, and a habit of being punctual for three meals ... So, when friends who haven't seen me for years hear that I am a teacher, they often ask: Is your salary high? Are you well paid? However, even if I care about my good friend again, no one will ask, are you happy? Am I happy? Why can I feel happy? What about you? Is there an answer that can be said without thinking? What is happiness? Maybe we remember many happy scenes, but happiness is the question and answer of our own soul. So, I asked myself: Have you ever been happy because of your lover? Of course, you can choose to love your family and friends. But as a teacher, you have a career with the theme of love, so you should love the children around you and accept their advantages and disadvantages as you forgive your friends' small temper and their practical jokes. I remember there was a passage "If you give me three days of light". After reading it, I felt "teachers' reading experience and reading experience". The author Helen Keller is blind, deaf and dumb. Before the age of seven, she lived in silence and darkness until she met the angel of life-her teacher Sullivan. Teacher Sullivan spent her whole life with the poor child, turning her from an ignorant, rude and irritable animal into a brave and caring great writer. If it weren't for love, how could there be such a great miracle? If there is no love, how can we inject light into the dark heart and sow a healthy soul on the broken body? Loving others is a fragrance from the soul and a sweetness that goes deep into the bone marrow. After a long time, it will be wrapped in happiness and tightly wrap your heart. Have you ever been happy to be loved? When you are tired from work, your parents call and your friends send text messages. If you are not a teacher, this may be all. But as a teacher, I got extra care. You can do a simple calculation: I have taught many classes in recent years. How many students are there? Assuming that half of them love me, how much care have I gained in my life besides my relatives and friends? Of course, I may have quoted a more conceited calculation formula here, but the teachers present here, you send out one student after another, and the love they will return to you is immeasurable. Harvest the love of others, this is an unparalleled wealth! Have you ever been happy because of your work? Have you ever been happy because you changed the world? There is a beautiful saying: working women are beautiful. Why are working people beautiful? That's because she is focused, because she has a clear purpose, because she exudes value. One year, a sociology professor surveyed 200 teenagers in Baltimore slums. Twenty-five years later, the professor was surprised to find that among the remaining 180 people, 178 people have become outstanding people in all walks of life except 20 people who have disappeared or died. So he visited many of them and asked them: What is the key to your success? The answers are surprisingly consistent. They said: Because I met a good teacher. How many times, when your efforts become more and more effective, when you find that your children have made little progress, you are happy. Isn't this great happiness enough? Have you ever been happy because of giving? Have you ever been happy because of loss? Young friends around us advocate avant-garde life, and bars are their favorite places. In fact, I also yearned for such glitz, but as a teacher, I can't forget to enjoy it; This experience also made me understand that the same lost youth can be used for profligacy or dedication. We have so many teachers who keep working despite illness. Who ever thought that she lacked charm because of tired illness? No, her strong book fragrance and strong personality strength will only make people want to get close to him and trust him; The same flip can be mediocre and can be remembered forever. I'm willing to pay such a price and lose such a price. Many teachers see your confident smile and leisurely pace every morning. I think you must find your happiness. And I, still like a bird, rise and fall, that's what I'm still looking for; Young me, I am no longer blinded by temporary setbacks, but find a legitimate reason for my choice! -look for the seeds of happiness that have been hidden for a long time, and it will become your endless energy. Therefore, gray hair and rickety back will no longer be the only image of teachers; That bright lamp, sitting at a desk late at night, will no longer be a monotonous portrayal of the teacher. We should have young light, youthful vigor and vigorous vitality for a long time; We should proudly show our broad mind, beautiful mind and open mind. The predecessors carved a lofty yardstick for us: teaching without distinction, teaching tirelessly, the spring breeze melts the rain, and the wax torch turns to ashes. Today, we want to gather a brand-new feature with a brand-new teacher image: a happy teacher with only a few years' work experience has made me deeply understand that education is the cause of love. Teacher love is different from general love, and she is higher than maternal love, friendship and love. Isn't it? Motherly love is easy to spoil, friendship needs to be reciprocated, and love is single-minded and selfish. Teacher's love is a combination of strictness and love, a rational and scientific love, and a proactive love. This kind of love is the bridge of education, the driving force of education and the catalyst for the transformation of underachievers; This kind of love is "all for students, all for students, all for students", a great selfless love, which contains a lofty sense of mission and responsibility. A philosopher once said, "A teacher's love can cheer up students who have made mistakes. Teacher's love is the' hard ice' accumulated in students' hearts for a long time with deep feelings. Teacher's love is the key to open the door to students' hearts. " "Start with hard work and end with dullness". This is exactly the life portrayal of our educators.

Wang Wei continued his education on the Internet and learned a lot of useful knowledge, especially the article "Teachers' Morality in Teacher-student Relationship". Although the pressure of teachers' sacred aura has been removed, it should also be noted that every profession has professional ethics. As teachers, we should abide by teachers' professional ethics. Here are some of my views:

First of all, I think teachers should treat every student fairly, which doesn't mean doing everything exactly the same, especially when it comes to students' knowledge level. For example, when assigning homework, treat every student fairly, not how much homework each student has, but according to the actual situation of students, assign homework at different levels in several categories and put forward different requirements for students at different levels; Even the same topic, because each student's ability is different, teachers should have different requirements for students, and we should master the principle of seeking truth from facts and varying from person to person.

Secondly, teachers should tolerate students' shortcomings, which does not mean ignoring students' shortcomings and letting them go. When students make some mistakes, they should be given the opportunity to correct them and help them find out the reasons.

Finally, teachers should use punishment carefully. Refusing corporal punishment does not mean that there is no need for punishment. As teachers, we can't corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguised form. This is necessary. This is the teacher's bottom line. But sometimes when students make mistakes, appropriate punishment is also necessary, otherwise, the educational effect will not be achieved. For example, I think it is normal to punish students who cheat in exams. Punishment is also to educate students and let them know what mistakes schools can't make and what mistakes schools should be punished. Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established.

In the process of education and teaching, our teachers should love students, treat students as their own children, strive to improve their professional ethics, and take treating every student fairly, tolerating students' shortcomings, using punishment carefully and refusing corporal punishment as their work direction.

After reading Don't Lose in Family Education, we all know that parents are children's first teachers and they play an important role in their growth. We put all our hopes on the children. Many times I wonder how to educate my child, whether the effect will be better, and whether it can make her grow better. After reading the book "Don't lose in family education", I felt a lot. This book uses many examples that are close to our lives, and tells the examples of how parents should educate their children from all aspects, which is of great help to me and has a great guiding role in my future education of children.

In the process of children's moral formation, the role of family education cannot be underestimated, and parents' moral behavior norms determine and influence children's behavior principles to a considerable extent. Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. We have instilled this idea in our child from beginning to end when she was very young. For example, please invite your grandparents before eating and eat together when everyone arrives. In the past, children liked to put their favorite dishes in front of me, which was of course very bad. Once I bought a lot of things I love to eat, put them in front of me and ate them with relish. The child was very wronged when he saw it. I said I learned it from you. Of course, I buy what I like. If you don't think of others, how can others think of you? Ask her: Do you think good things should be shared? She listened and bowed her head. From then on, she knew that only by being kind to others can she win others' goodwill towards herself, and she learned to care for others with compassion.

"Are you worse than others?" When asked about my children, my children will definitely answer without hesitation: "I am no worse than others. If others can do it, so can I!" " "The child is full of confidence, which is her nature. As parents, we can't kill it. We must give her enough confidence to help her develop normally.

After reading the book Don't Lose in Family Education, I know that what we have done is far from enough. If you want to be a qualified parent, you must constantly improve your own quality, update your family education concept, and master superstitious family education knowledge and methods. We deeply understand that parents should assist their children, let them learn to be human and do things, and let them constantly improve their personality. The cultivation of personality and conduct is an extremely long process. The persistent pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty, passionate enthusiasm and frank feelings will always be our parents' personality pursuit. As Freud Bell, a German educator, said: The fate of children is in the hands of parents.

Let's join hands as parents, do everything for children, hold up tomorrow's sun, create a happy life for children and create a bright future for the Chinese nation.