The famous educator Suhomlinski pointed out that parents are "sculptors" who create the future, and the "cornerstone" of children is laid by parents themselves. Educating children well is a citizen's basic obligation. The following is the percentage network. I compiled a short article about parenting knowledge for you. I hope you like it.

Su Homlinski, a famous educator, pointed out that parents are "sculptors" who create the future, and the "cornerstone" of children is laid by parents themselves. Educating children well is a citizen's basic obligation. At present, how to train children to be useful and let them win at the starting line has become an urgent concern of every parent, but most parents often lack scientific teaching methods. They only teach by personal intuition and some traditional experience, which makes many problems and misunderstandings in family education. Today, we should change a new way of thinking.

Accept new educational ideas, update your own educational ideas and get out of the misunderstanding of family education.

First, get out of the misunderstanding of family education.

Parents are obedient to their children, give them whatever they want, do everything possible to meet their needs, treat their children as their darling, and can't let them suffer a little injustice. For example, on the weekend, a young mother picked up her child from kindergarten and found a slight scar on her face. She asked, "Did the kindergarten children scratch it?" The child nodded and the mother was angry: "Why didn't you arrest him?" After that, I went to see the teacher ... what a pity! Can parents develop good moral character by loving their children so much? Can you adapt to the requirements of society? The love of parents is admirable, but parents should also think about it. What if they "love" their children so much? As parents, we must be soberly aware that this not only hurts children's hearts, but also interferes with their healthy growth! Educator makarenko said: "It is the most terrible gift for parents to give their children everything and sacrifice everything, even their own happiness." The children of Comrade Liu Shaoqi, a proletarian revolutionary, went through a difficult period of three years when they went to primary school. The food at school is very poor, and the children's bodies become thin. The nurse suggested that Liu Shaoqi take the children home, but Liu Shaoqi refused. He said: "Children can only be exercised and tested if they stay in hard places." It can be seen that the love of the older generation of revolutionaries for children is a kind of rational love, a kind of real love. I hope parents can learn from it, love their children appropriately and reasonably, and teach with love and teach with teaching.

Love makes children grow up healthily.

Second, get out of the misunderstanding of family education in which intelligence comes first.

It is the common wish of parents all over the world to cultivate young children into useful people, and it is also the spiritual sustenance of parents' hard work. However, many parents pay more attention to intellectual factors and only pay attention to the instillation of knowledge, and rarely ask other factors that restrict their children's growth. People think that children can only get ahead when they go to college, so they are required to recite Tang poetry and Song lyrics, recognize Chinese characters, add, subtract, multiply and divide all day, which stifles their playful nature and hinders their all-round development. Intelligence is the core and soul of ability, so it is very important to develop children's intelligence and cultivate their ability. But if family education only pays attention to intellectual factors, the result can be imagined. On the contrary, if we can start with all-round development, we can cultivate their self-confidence, enterprising spirit, persistence, self-control and courage, for example, let children insist on doing their own things in daily life, let them believe in their own strength and give them praise and encouragement; When children are doing something and give up halfway for other reasons, they should be urged and encouraged in time to make them insist on doing it well; Let children play some roles that they don't like in the game and make their behavior suitable.

From the collective requirements and so on, let your normal intelligence get full play.

Children are most afraid of loneliness, boredom and boredom. They have a strong desire to take part in a favorite activity. When children devote themselves wholeheartedly to a favorite activity, their hearts will be full of "sense of accomplishment" and their joy will be beyond words. Parents should understand and respect their children's wishes, provide them with a world to explore freely and a venue for activities, and give them warm encouragement. Because interest and self-confidence are the driving force for progress. Even if children don't have extraordinary intelligence, as long as they have good psychological quality, they can become talents in the future. On the contrary, they may accomplish nothing in the future and even become "waste products". As parents, if they want their children to be successful, they must cultivate the foundation of their intellectual factors.

In fact, pay attention to the all-round development of children. In this way, children receive scientific family education in early childhood and benefit for life.

Third, get out of the misunderstanding of family education with bad atmosphere.

With the rapid development of society, another annoying problem of family education is that on the one hand, parents want their children to grow up, on the other hand, the family atmosphere is not conducive to their growth. For example, some parents often fight each other, make trouble at home, get divorced, and cause trauma to their children's minds; Some parents are busy with work, career or business all day to make money, regardless of whether they ask their children, they let themselves go, and even run amok in front of their children ... As the saying goes, "example is more important than words" and "the power of example is endless". The image of parents has a great influence on children, which is often beyond people's usual understanding. The reason why many children's personality, style and behavior habits are very similar to those of their parents is that heredity does not play a decisive role, but that parents' manners are gradually formed in a subtle way. Children are usually very good at imitation, and their ability to distinguish between good and bad things is still very poor. As long as parents and teachers say and do what they think is good, right and beautiful. They are here every day.

Pay attention to all the problems in life with the most subtle eyes, and observe every move, word and deed of adults. I want to imitate everything and learn everything. As a result, parents became model teachers for their study. Parents' every move, smile, smile, are displayed in front of children like a vivid atlas, from which children imitate the way parents treat people, and gradually form their own standards of right and wrong, good and evil concepts and behavior habits. Therefore, some people call the education in this period "Atlas education". If parents behave well and appropriately in all aspects, children can see, learn and be influenced by them. Over time, children will receive a good family education and grow up healthily.

Otherwise, as Lu Xun pointed out: "The shortcomings of parents are the foreshadowing of the demise of later generations and the crisis of life."

Parenting knowledge story: What role should parents play in the early education process as the baby grows and develops? Is there any way to help your baby's brain develop better and your baby's intelligence develop faster? The following is what babies and parents should do every month before they are one year old. Vaccinate BCG and the first dose of hepatitis B vaccine 24 hours after birth.

1, early milk, early suction, early contact;

2. Breastfeeding;

3. Do umbilical nursing to prevent pneumonia;

4, more contact with children, more hugs, more touching;

5. Learn to laugh and practice looking up and "crawling";

6. Continue to listen to prenatal music;

7. Talk to your child more and know how the child cries;

8. You can take cod liver oil drops two weeks after birth.

9. Vaccinate the second dose of hepatitis B vaccine at the full moon;

10, routine physical examination at full moon.

The second month:

1, insist on breastfeeding;

2. Cultivate regular living habits;

3. Use mother's touch, voice and smile to promote children's sensory development;

4. Practice prone position twice a day for 30 minutes each time;

5. Insist on outdoor activities;

6, do baby exercises;

7. Make children pronounce;

8. Eyes can see things clearly, follow moving things, observe and tease children to follow objects.

9. Look up for 30 seconds;

10, rich in expression, someone can make him respond accordingly;

1 1, which can indicate happiness and unhappiness;

12, you can stop crying when you hear the familiar voice;

13, suck your little hand;

14, take 1 polio sugar pills.

The third month:

In the third month, the development of brain cells is on the eve of the second peak of the burst period. Not only should we have enough breastfeeding, but we should also give training to the nervous system of vision, hearing and touch. Daily life is gradually regularized, and the baby's sleeping posture should be consciously changed several times. You can let the baby follow the moving objects, stimulate development by touching and grasping toys, and do activities such as baby gymnastics.

1, lactating mothers should reasonably increase nutrition;

2. Insist on outdoor activities to prevent rickets;

3. Training and grasping;

4. Talk to children more;

5. Practice turning over;

6, you can use a pillow;

7. Increase the time to play with children;

8, the head can stand upright, forearm support when prone, chest out, head up;

9. I like relatives to tease him and laugh;

10, can catch things;

1 1, when playing with his toys, he will make a happy sound;

12, which can sound "e", "h" and "AI";

13, take the second poliomyelitis sugar pill;

14. Inject DTP, DTP, DTP mixed preparation 1 injection, and inoculate the first dose of Class II vaccine, Anemone, but it is still half a month away from Class I vaccine;

15. See a doctor for a health check-up at the end of the month;

The fourth month:

1, insist on breastfeeding for 4 months;

2. Egg yolk and liver mud can be added to prevent anemia;

3. Make full use of the ways of seeing, listening, touching, smelling, tasting and exercising to promote the baby's sensory development;

4. Talk to children more;

5. The head can freely rotate vertically;

6, can roll to one side when prone;

7. Some children can change from prone to supine, or from supine to prone;

8. Being able to express emotions and laughter;

9. Hands can be accurately grasped;

10, will smile in the mirror;

1 1, take the third poliomyelitis sugar pill;

12, inject the second injection of DTP, DTP and DTP mixed preparation, and inoculate the second injection of class II vaccine, Anerbal;

13, do tuberculin test and recheck BCG vaccination.

The fifth month:

1, gradually add complementary food, pay attention to step by step;

2. Change children's recipes frequently;

3. Teach children to imitate pronunciation;

4. Prevention of malnutrition anemia;

5, like to look in the mirror, and can laugh at yourself in the mirror;

6. Turn from prone to supine;

7. Holding the child's waist or armpit, you can jump on the adult's leg;

8. You can pour things from one hand to the other;

9. When lying prone, you can hold up your upper arm, hold your chest out, and hold your head up and hold your chest out;

10, you can grasp what you want with your hands;

1 1, with rich expressions, can express likes and dislikes with expressions;

12, relatives can identify;

13, legs can support the body when dragging;

14. inject the third injection of DTP, DTP and Big Dipper, and inoculate the third injection of Anerbao, the second class vaccine.

The sixth month:

1 and 6 months later, the child began to get sick because the antibody level from the mother in the body gradually decreased. At this time, children are particularly vulnerable to various infectious diseases and various malnutrition;

2. Ensure children's nutrition and add complementary food;

3. Strengthen physical exercise and do more activities;

4. Insist on sunbathing and do more outdoor activities;

5, ensure sleep;

6. Practice rolling over;

7. Pay attention to dental care;

8. Inject the third injection of hepatitis B and group A meningococcal vaccine 1 injection;

9. Routine physical examination at the end of the month.

The seventh month:

1, adding minced meat, animal blood and liver mud to prevent anemia;

2. Add dry hard food such as dry bread and steamed bread to exercise and chew;

3. Practice pronunciation;

4. Continue to practice rock climbing;

5. Learn to do baby exercises for 7- 12 months;

6. Learn to recognize things;

7. Training and catching;

8, training to listen to orders to do things, know the meaning of prohibition;

9, 7-month-old baby can look up, sit, turn over, stand by the railing, and have a wide field of vision;

10, curiosity is enhanced, and we must grasp everything in front of us;

1 1. Don't let others take what you have;

12, recognize people and show affection for familiar people;

13, can imitate mother's simple actions, such as shaking toys, knocking, knocking, etc.

14, which can be remembered, but it is very short;

15, prevention of infectious diseases.

16, oral rotavirus vaccine ⅱ can prevent diarrhea caused by rotavirus (oral effect is the best in autumn).

The eighth month:

1, add complementary food in patterns, and gradually increase varieties to prevent indigestion;

2. Cultivate social skills;

3. Pay attention to safety;

4. Create a space for children to exercise;

5. Learn to take a spoon and drink water from a cup;

6. Vaccinate measles vaccine and live attenuated Japanese encephalitis vaccine for 8 months.

The ninth month:

1, to help hands move forward;

2. Increase outdoor activities;

3. read books and look at pictures;

4, can understand the meaning of common words;

5. Training cooperative games with people;

6. Expand children's activity space;

7. Learn to clap your hands to welcome and wave goodbye;

8. Routine physical examination at the end of the month;

9. Inject the second group A meningococcal vaccine.

The tenth month:

1, weaning gradually, giving priority to staple food;

2. Transition from porridge, rotten noodles, minced meat and mashed vegetables to soft rice, steamed bread, minced meat and chopped vegetables;

3. Stand alone and encourage children to move forward;

4, training consciously called "dad" and "mom";

5. Dressing and undressing training;

6. Arrange children's regular life;

7. Cultivate children's good eating habits;

Eleventh month:

1, cultivate good eating habits;

2. Adjust children's diet to prevent malnutrition and digestive tract diseases;

3. Read songs, poems, tell stories and practice pronunciation;

4. Increase outdoor activities and pay attention to physical exercise;

5. Three meals a day plus two milks and two snacks;

6. Take off your shoes yourself;

7. Prevent constipation.

The twelfth month:

1, you can walk on the handrail;

2, holding hands can move;

3, can stand, squat, bend over;

4, will eat with a small spoon, but can't eat well;

5, can draw;

6, can say a word or two;

7. Be able to express your views;

8. Adjust the diet structure;

9. Go to the hospital for routine physical examination at the end of the month.

10, vaccinated with varicella vaccine (it is recommended that all children should be vaccinated with varicella vaccine as long as there are no contraindications).

Fan Wensan: Children with nosebleeds are usually injured in the front of the nasal septum. Here, several blood vessels meet and are arteries, so there is a lot of bleeding. Children who are prone to nosebleeds can be roughly divided into the following categories:

First, children with colds-because colds can reduce the resistance of nasal mucosa, symptoms of colds (stuffy nose, runny nose, runny nose, etc. ) will make children do some actions that directly hurt the nasal mucosa (such as blowing your nose hard and picking your nose). ), so it is easy to have a nosebleed.

Second, children with nasal allergies-because the nose is itchy, runny nose, stuffy nose, often picking nostrils, so that the nasal mucosa often hurts and bleeds.

Third, children who are used to picking their nostrils with their fingers-because they often pick their nostrils, the nasal entrance and nasal vestibule are repeatedly injured, scabbed, and then stained with nosebleeds. Children can't help digging, so a vicious circle, over time, the nose entrance and vestibule will fester and bleed easily.

4. Children with blood diseases-these children often have nosebleeds, even though their noses are not injured. Usually the flow rate is slow, but the frequency is very frequent. This type of nosebleed is usually caused by blood diseases. In this case, they must go to the hospital for a blood test immediately, just in case.

Parents should not lose their minds when they see a lot of bleeding. It is best to press both sides of the nose with your thumb and middle finger immediately to stop bleeding, and then let it go after about five minutes.

See if the bleeding has stopped. If the bleeding continues, press your nose hard for another five to ten minutes, most of which can stop the bleeding. If not, be sure to call an otolaryngologist for emergency treatment.

Many parents often put toilet paper or cotton into their children's nasal cavity to stop bleeding when they see their children with nosebleeds, but they can't stop bleeding because of insufficient pressure or wrong position. At this time, parents often let their children lie down, thinking that this can help stop bleeding. In fact, this is not appropriate, because once the child lies down, the nosebleed that originally flowed out will flow back to his mouth and throat, which will make it difficult for the child to breathe, or swallow a lot of blood, which will stimulate the stomach wall and cause vomiting and blood, and even make parents panic.

In fact, children with nosebleeds don't have to panic. As long as they are handled properly, they can probably be solved, but the most important thing is that prevention is more important than treatment. If the child has a cold, he should see a doctor as soon as possible. Children with nasal allergies should control their allergic attacks for a long time. Children who are used to picking their nostrils should often be discouraged. Children suspected of having blood diseases should be sent to a doctor for examination as soon as possible.