Nowadays, many children are like a canary at home, protected and spoiled by several parents, and gradually lose the opportunity and ability to live independently. Many children are too well protected by their parents when they are young, so they lack independence and rely too much on their parents. Parents help their children do everything well, so children have no ability to handle things by themselves, and they will only flinch when they meet anything. Therefore, in view of this highly dependent child, parents must take certain measures to educate their children and cultivate their independence.

First of all, parents should not spoil their children too much. Children have a strong sense of dependence because of their parents' usual doting. Children often reach for clothes and food at home. If they lack independence, they can't face the ups and downs outside after going out. Moreover, if parents are always considerate, children will lack life experience, self-care ability and independence when they grow up, and will always rely on their parents and be unable to stand on their own feet when they grow up.

Second, educate children about some setbacks. For this dependent child, parents must make up their minds and properly educate their children about some setbacks. When a child encounters difficulties, parents should not help the child for the first time, but let the child find a way for himself, so that the child will not bow in the face of difficulties and learn to be responsible when facing his own mistakes. Don't depend on your parents for everything. When children encounter more setbacks and difficulties and solve things by themselves many times, they gradually become independent.

Third, parents should learn to let go. Sometimes children don't want to rely too much on their parents and want to be independent, but parents always love their children and think that they have no viability and can't do anything, so they always protect them well. If parents want their children to stand on their own feet in the future, they must learn to let go boldly, let their children develop freely and give them more room to play. Children may give parents unexpected results.