1. "High-power magnifying glass": First, enlarge the advantages of children. When you see that children have good main performances, you should immediately encourage them to improve their sense of mission and self-confidence. It is particularly worth mentioning that parents should be good at catching the bright spots in their children, looking at them with a developmental perspective and encouraging them. Every child has a unique talent and is buried in a dull life like a gold mine. If parents can properly explore and carry forward, they will certainly make their children succeed in their studies and create jobs in the future.

2. "Look at the glasses": Look at the child's development prospects from a distance. Parents should look at the child's growth stage according to the situation. Every development on the road of children's electronic development distracts his autonomy and creativity as a natural student. In the eyes of "looking at glasses", children will feel a kind of trust. With trust, children can talk to you like good friends; With trust, children will open their hearts to you for help in the first time; With trust, children will keep your hopes in mind and become motivation.

3. "Flat mirror": treat children fairly. Under the direct influence of parents' "colored eyes" and the "label effect", the "bad" child gave up on himself and really became "as bad as parents think he is." Every child has his own unique growth track and is an upright parent. Love for children should not be considered according to their own likes and dislikes, but should be treated fairly. Treating children fairly means treating them as good friends and attaching importance to their thoughts.

4. "Multi-prism": Parenting education should also look at children's problems with a "multi-prism", and look for the causes of children's problems from the different levels, so as to draw inferences from others, instead of being justified, only seeing the trees without seeing the forest and looking at the surface without studying the essence. Naturally, we should be more tolerant of the child's unintentional mistakes, eliminate his carelessness, and accompany him to think and explore ways to improve after comforting him.

5. "Microscope": It is not enough to search your parents' own microscope. Although small, we can find that the problem is in the bud. The whole process of parents raising their children is so long, sometimes they relax, sometimes they complain, sometimes they are impetuous and sometimes they make mistakes. This requires everyone to use a microscope from time to time to find the problem, find the root of the problem, and then prescribe the right medicine. Parents discover their own shortcomings according to the microscope, stimulate their own ideas, improve their understanding and innovate constantly, so as to gradually improve their children's social morality, character, conduct, schoolwork and courage, and then cultivate their children with their excellent personality energy.