The story of the ancients educating their children (Yang Fu (f incarnation) living Buddha) There was a man named Yang Fu in the Ming Dynasty who wanted to practice liberation. He bid farewell to his mother and went to Sichuan to visit a famous Zen founder, Infinite Zen Master.
On the way, Yang Nai met an old monk who asked him where he was going. Yang Nai said: I'm going to visit the boundless master. ?
The old monk said:? You're going to visit boundless? Why don't you meet the living Buddha? ?
Yang Naidao: See the living Buddha? Where is the Buddha?
The monk said:? As long as you go back to the East, then you will see a person wearing a quilt and slippers upside down, and you will be a living Buddha. ?
Yang Nai listened to the monk and went back. In the middle of the night, I went to my door and knocked at the door. Open the door! I'm back! ? When his mother heard that her son had returned to the house, she was so happy that she didn't have time to put on socks. She grabbed a quilt, put on her body and slippers and came out to open the door. In a hurry, she didn't even know that her shoes were on backwards.
Yang Fu, look at this? People who wear quilts and slippers upside down? It turned out to be my own mother, and now I understand where to start practicing, because my parents at home are living buddhas! From then on, he tried his best to be filial to his mother and annotated a tens of thousands of words of "The Book of Filial Piety". He lived to be eighty years old and died by chanting.
Words of little wisdom: on a cold night, people go home far away and knock on other people's doors, and there is almost no response. Only the loving mother was so happy to hear the news that the child came back that she didn't even have time to button it. She couldn't wait to put on her shoes and quickly opened the door. What's the difference between such compassion and living Buddha? In fact, every family has a living Buddha, but we always go far and look for it everywhere.
The story of the ancients educating their children (Yang Zhen's Four Knows) During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Yang Zhen was the satrap of Donglai (now Longkou, Shandong). There was a man named Wang Mi who was once recommended as a scholar by Yang Zhen. At this time, he has done the Changyi County Order.
One night, Wang Mi quietly gave Yang Zhen more than ten catties of gold. Yang Zhen said unhappily. An old friend knows your heart, but you don't. ?
Wang Mi said? Nobody knows at midnight. ?
Yang Zhen said? God knows, the earth knows, you know, and I know. How can I say that no one knows?
Hearing this, Wang Mi went back in shame.
Yang Zhen is fair and honest, and is not subject to private audiences. His grandson often only eats vegetables, and he doesn't have a car when he goes out. He just walks.
Xiao Zhi's famous saying: "Disciples Rules" says: Hold the virtual device, such as holding the surplus, into the virtual room, such as someone. ? It means: hold an empty vessel carefully like a vessel full of things; When you enter an empty room, you should restrain yourself as if you entered someone else's room. Be careful what you say and do. A virtuous festival is like jewelry, which will shine brightly no matter what environment it is placed in.
One day, Luz, dressed in a military uniform, went to visit Confucius armed to the teeth. After seeing Master, he drew his sword and danced. Master, ancient gentlemen used swords to defend themselves, didn't they? Confucius replied:? Ancient gentlemen took loyalty and righteousness as their life goal and benevolence and righteousness as their guardians. Although they don't go out of the narrow room, they know great things thousands of miles away. If there is a bad guy, use loyalty to influence him; People disturbed by riots are stabilized by benevolence and righteousness. In that case, why use a sword to use force? Lutz listened with admiration and said with emotion:? I just heard this today, and I sincerely and respectfully ask you for advice from now on. ?
Words of wisdom: violence against violence cannot solve the problem. The wind of right and wrong comes from an unbalanced mentality. Heart is the foundation. Love is born from the heart, so is hostility and resentment. All external environment is a reflection of our heart. Even if you don't move the real knife and gun, you can think in grievances and calculate every day. The waves are rolling inside, and even the smoke is piled up. How can the relationship between people be harmonious?
The story of the ancients' education of children (a pillow of Huangliang) There was a scholar who was very poor and cried to a Taoist in a hotel that he had never enjoyed prosperity and how painful it was.
The Taoist priest gave him a pillow and said, nothing. You should have a good rest first. ?
As a result, after he fell asleep, he dreamed that he married a wife, gave birth to five children, went to Beijing to be a scholar, and later became a prime minister.
The emperor attached great importance to him. When he died, he wrote to the emperor and said: I was loyal to you all my life, and then I died.
In this long dream, he married and had children when he was young, and enjoyed all the splendor until his death. But when he woke up, the yellow rice cooked by the innkeeper was not ripe yet!
Just now, when he was ready to go to bed, the meal was just cooked and he finished his life in less than an hour. Therefore, people often use it to describe life as a dream.
Words of wisdom: Life is short and unreal, and most people get lost in it. In fact, in just a few decades, the most valuable thing is not wealth, fame and fortune, but a thorough understanding of life.
Once upon a time, there was a brave man who made friends with all the heroes in the world. He was very brave. He said to his son before he died. Although I have been wandering in the rivers and lakes since I was a child, all my friends are crucian carp crossing the river. In fact, I have made one and a half friends in my life. ?
The son is puzzled. His father leaned close to his ear to explain, and then said to him, if you meet my friend as I say, you will naturally understand the nature of a friend. ?
My son left first. What did father decide? A friend? There. Say to him:? I'm XXX's son, and now I'm being hunted by the court. I'm desperate to join you, hoping to save you! ? Hearing this, the man couldn't think, so he called his son and ordered him to change his clothes and put them on the stranger? A court criminal? Let your son wear it? A court criminal? Clothes.
My son understands: Only those who can treat you sincerely and even give up their own flesh and blood to save you when your life and death are at stake can be called your friends.
The son went again. His father said that? Half a friend? Over there, fuels, the same thing is happening again. This? Half a friend? Listen, for the man who asked for help? A court criminal? Say: son, I can't save you for such a big thing. I will give you enough money for the trip. You ran away. You ran for your life. I promise I won't turn you in.
My son has learned that people who can protect themselves wisely when you are in trouble and don't hurt you when you are frustrated can be called your half friends.
Words of wisdom: A friend in trouble is a true friend, and a true friend will only recognize him when needed. Su Jun, a general in Jin Dynasty, divided his friends into four types according to the different ways of communication: being able to encourage and spur each other, pointing out his mistakes in time, helping him to correct his mistakes and make up for his shortcomings, being awe of friends or pity for friends; When a friend is in trouble, he can stand up and help him with all his strength and spare no effort to save his friend's predicament. This is a close friend; Get together to eat, drink, play and say some compliments to each other. Based on wine and meat, this is a bosom friend, that is, people often say that wine and meat friends; Like-minded, form girlfriends, once the spoils are unevenly distributed, they will fight and kill each other. This is a thief friend.
Allusions of ancient people's education of children (language skills)
Cao Cao likes Cao Zhi's talent very much, so he wants to abolish Cao Pi and let Prince Cao Azhi. When Cao Cao asked Jia Yi (Y? ), Jia Yi without saying a word. Cao Cao asked strangely, why don't you speak? .
Jia Yi said:? I'm thinking about something! ? .
Cao Cao asked: What are you thinking? .
Jia Yi replied:? I was thinking about the disaster caused by Yuan Shao and Liu Biao. ? .
Cao Cao laughed after hearing this, and immediately understood the implication of Jia Yi, so he stopped mentioning the matter of Cao Pi.
In the Southern Dynasties, Qi Gaozu studied calligraphy with the calligrapher Wang Sengqian at that time. On one occasion, Gaudi suddenly asked Wang Sengqian: Whose handwriting is better, you or me? .
This question is difficult to answer. It is against one's will to say that Gaudi's handwriting is better than his own. Saying that Gaudi's words are not as good as his own will make Gaudi's face untenable and make the relationship between the monarch and the minister very bad.
Wang Sengqian cleverly replied:? My handwriting is the best, and yours is the best. ?
There are only a few emperors, but countless officials. Wang Sengqian's implication is very clear.
Gaudi understood the implication, ha ha ha smiled, also forget about it, no longer polite.
Words of little wisdom: language can be a weapon, which will hurt people; It can also be a flower, which brings pleasure to people. Mastering language skills is not rhetoric, but using language as a carrier to convey love and extinguish disputes.
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