Comparing the educational thoughts of Sheng Nan and Tang Lin, we really need to learn from each other. It is unrealistic to completely copy foreign education methods to cultivate children in the environment of China, but it is immoral to force children to face the cruelty of reality prematurely and ruin their only childhood. Although Sheng Nan became a capable woman under the pressure of her father's blood, she still often had nightmares, and those painful past still left an indelible mark on her memory. She sympathizes with Bi Shengnan!