My family education story:
Educating children has always been a major event in life, affecting the hearts of thousands of parents in Qian Qian. Because children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of parents. It is the natural mission of human beings to have children. Every parent? Healthy? Is to give children life; ? Education? It is to teach children the skills and skills of growth and development. When parents have children? Education? Duty and instinct. Parents are children's first teachers and role models.
Two days ago, I watched the movie I'm not stupid with some parents. This film sees the big picture from the small. Through the description of the growth stories of Jerry and Yang, the problems existing in family education and school education in real life are reflected. In this film, the classic pictures and the classic dialogues are all familiar to us. Whether as students, children, parents or teachers, we can find our own shadow from them. So I want to talk about some thoughts on family education outside school education, and summarize the following points to communicate with you.
1, strive to create a studious and enterprising atmosphere in the family.
As the ancients said, near Zhu Zhechi is black, and near Mexico is black. Family has an enterprising atmosphere, which can exert a subtle influence on children's education and achieve education? Moisturize things silently? Field. I am a teacher, perhaps because of my professional habits and needs. After I am busy during the day, I often read and study at night. In my family, my husband and I often study and study with our children, and children naturally form the habit of loving reading. Usually, we never turn on the TV when the children are doing their homework. We set an example and set a good example. The family's studious and enterprising atmosphere enables children to develop good study habits.
2. Build a bridge across the generation gap.
Entering a child's mind depends not on doubt or surveillance, but on communication. Good communication enables us to establish a close parent-child relationship in the family.
Since my daughter was born, my husband has rarely been at home because he wants to start a business! So I seldom take care of my mother and daughter. Naturally, my daughter's feelings for her are relatively weak, and there is little communication between them. So that when my daughter came to Liuzhou to study, there was still some gap between them. I remember last September, because my daughter was not used to Liu's life and her husband's education, every time I visited her on weekends, my daughter cried very sadly. I pulled my daughter to the balcony, sat her down and told me why. It turned out that her husband told her to get up at 6 o'clock and take part in physical exercise. (Because my daughter's physical education is poor, my husband can be said to want her to become a phoenix, so he made a series of plans), but he didn't take into account her daughter's inadaptability in the new environment and was under great pressure. It was difficult to adapt for a while, which made my daughter breathless. She was wronged, but her father refused to listen to her daughter. I listened, and hurriedly dragged her father to the balcony for a family meeting, so that her husband could sit down face to face and communicate with his daughter. After communication, they reached an agreement and ended in laughter.
Family meeting. In private, I also discussed with my husband how to educate children and some online methods, and my husband readily accepted them. From then on, after work, her husband spent almost all his spare time playing with her, talking to her about her favorite topics like friends, talking about her interesting things at school, and treating her with a normal heart. After a long period of hard work, I gradually feel that he and his daughter are no longer as distant as before. Sometimes his father and daughter can talk for an hour or two like close friends, and talk so speculatively.
This year? March 8th Women's Day? Not only I, but also my husband accidentally received a small gift from his daughter-Tong Xinjie! We are so happy! The child has really grown up, got it!
Therefore, it is important to communicate with children more. I hope all parents can give their children enough care, not only in learning, material, but also in psychological comfort, so that children can really have someone to talk to on the road of growth, and build a bridge between children and parents to cross the generation gap and communicate with each other.
Looking forward to success? It is the common wish of all parents in the world. But all parents are children? Jackie Chan? Do children feel sincere and appreciated when they spare no effort and effort? Not really. Therefore, in order to make the subjective desire consistent with the objective effect and promote the healthy growth of children, the premise is to deepen the understanding of children, and further understand them on this basis, and finally find a solution. Visible, family education book? Three solutions? It is an indispensable channel to connect parents and children and an important link to ensure the healthy growth of children.
3. Scores are not the only criterion to measure children.
Whether we can correctly treat the setbacks and failures in children's growth is also a measure of parents' own educational quality. Remember that time when my daughter came back with a math unit test paper? 88 points! ? The child hung his head and was very nervous. Because her teacher and I can be said to be good sisters, she may have expected that the teacher would have told me this score. Naturally, I was very dissatisfied with this achievement, but I didn't complain about him immediately. Instead, read the test paper carefully together, and carefully analyze the reasons for losing points with the children after reading it. Seeing that he was still unhappy, I said to him: everyone has to go through the process from ignorance to knowledge. Of course, there will be bad knowledge in learning. Examination is one of the ways to test the mastery of knowledge. Through the examination, you can find your own shortcomings and correct them in time, so as to lay a good foundation of cultural knowledge! Right? The child nodded, and his nervous expression was obviously relieved. I continue: In one's life, there are many failures than successes. Ronald Reagan, the American president, failed 33 times and didn't become president until he was 83 years old. So, failure is the mother of success, right? Only by bravely facing setbacks and failures and being good at summing up experience can we truly embark on the road to success. Do you have a favorite song? If you don't experience wind and rain, then see the rainbow? Right? The child nodded thoughtfully. ? It doesn't matter if you don't do well in an exam. As long as you are confident and willing to work hard, my mother believes that you will achieve better results. You must be the best! ? Many things happen. In the next math unit exam, she got a good score of 100. I remember another time, it should be the Mid-Autumn Festival in 2009. My wife and I took our daughter to Guangzhou to participate in the World Memory Championship in China. When my daughter saw so many contestants, her hands trembled with nervousness. Mouth still doesn't listen to chanting: mother
Mom, mom, what should we do? My mind is blank now! ? We are also nervous to see our daughter like this, but we can't let our children see this tension. We have to do something! So we explained:? woman
Son, winning a prize is another matter. We're here to see it! Think of it as tempering! ? The daughter listened, and her heart was slowly put down. Because of this competition, you must have enough concentration and endurance. Once you are nervous, you can't remember anything. In the next competition, my daughter can finish with a normal heart and achieve excellent results. What is even cuter is what she said in the interview later. Teacher Guo Chuanwei asked her: What are your plans for the winter vacation? Do winter vacation homework first, and then the teacher will arrange a lot of diaries and compositions. ? Suddenly, she looked up and sighed: alas! This is not a pupil's life! ? Aroused the laughter of all the staff. Teacher Guo asked again:? Can you tell the teacher your dream? My dream is to go to America, live for five years and get a green card. ? Then he said:? I want to be a billionaire. If my father wants this, I will give it to him. If mom wants it, I'll give it to her. ?
Look, wow! What a filial child with dreams!
As parents, we must understand that when children encounter failure, what they need more is their parents' care and help.
4. Give children positive education and encourage education.
My daughter can finish her homework on time and with good quality, and has developed good study habits. I praised her: Son, you are awesome! She obeyed the discipline, so I praised her: Son, you are a good citizen! She likes raising small animals, and I support her by saying: You are a very caring child! Slowly, I found that children know how to take care of themselves when we are not at home and can do many things independently. More importantly, they are much more confident than before.
I often encourage her to do sports, such as skipping rope and running. Teach her to do housework, such as cooking, play with us in the wild, and let her get in touch with nature.
I hope I can try my best to cooperate with the education of the school and cultivate her into a good student with strong perseverance and love who can develop healthily both physically and mentally.
Watching children grow up day by day, they begin to have their own thoughts and opinions. I think parents should understand and respect their children while educating them, treat them with a normal heart, and let them thrive and become good citizens. Every child is not born absolutely intelligent, nor is he born stupid.
Materials. The success of children depends on our parents creating a good living and learning environment for their children, paying more attention to their every move, and at most working hard. We should realize the truth from children's expectations of their parents, constantly improve their own quality, correct their role behaviors, be good parents in children's minds, and be qualified parents.
So, as children, what do they really need when they grow up? In fact, what they need is very simple: understanding, trust, tolerance and appreciation!
Educational sentiment:
Tutoring is a very important part of a person's growth. Family education is the most direct and vivid education for parents, and it is the key factor for children's healthy and smooth growth. As Tao Xingzhi said: Teach people from an early age. Children, like seedlings, must be properly nurtured in order to thrive; Otherwise, if you are injured at an early age, you will not die, and it will be difficult to become useful. ? I sincerely hope that parents can find the best way to educate their children and let them grow up healthily and happily.
My family education story:
As parents, we have learned the education guide of Liucheng Kindergarten Fuxing Branch. First of all, let me tell you about my educational philosophy for children and share some educational stories behind our family.
Young parents are children's first teachers and role models. If school education is left-handed, then family education is right-handed. Only when the left arm and the right arm are opened together can the child's education be held up. If the child is a young eagle, school education can cultivate one wing of the child, and family education can cultivate the other wing, so that our child can fly. I would like to take this opportunity to talk about some thoughts on our family education and summarize the following points to share with you.
1. Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My children sometimes hear him say: It's so hard, I can't learn, I don't participate, I can't do well, and others will laugh at me and other negative languages. To this end, we told him many stories about the growth of celebrities and asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up. He said: When archaeologists and explorers wanted to see the pyramids in Egypt and go to Disneyland in the United States, we told him that archaeologists and explorers needed a lot of knowledge. Chinese and mathematics are the foundation. What if you don't know the language when you go abroad? So he felt that he had to study to realize his wish. At the same time, in the process of learning, we try to apply the content of learning to life and games, which makes him feel a lot of fun. Every time he makes progress, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make him happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage him to say: I believe I will do better next time. Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.
2. Actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education. It is reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. This is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of the school's arrangement, learning content, learning progress, children's performance in school, what they have done well and what they have not done well, and will strictly supervise and assist their children to complete their homework, carefully check the completion, help their children check the missing parts, and explain to them what they don't understand, so that they can make mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell him to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell him why it is not good and what to do in the future. Playfulness is the nature of children, especially boys, and needs constant supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, carefully completing homework, thinking independently, asking questions diligently, and firmly mastering what they have learned.
3. Insist on after-school study and constantly expand knowledge.
In addition to school homework, we also sign up our children for painting study. Insist on every weekend
After learning, children are very interested and learn quickly. Children like listening to stories. After grade one, we let him read by himself. I borrowed some reading materials from the library, starting with what children are interested in, which can improve his reading interest. I sometimes take him to the library during holidays and find that he likes it very much. It's good to read this book and that one. Taking children to the library can increase a lot of knowledge. Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. As the ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you won't reach a thousand miles, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
4. Create a good learning atmosphere in the family.
We also need to keep learning at work. We all like studying at home and can persist for a long time. Regardless of book knowledge or network knowledge, we consciously create a strong learning atmosphere at home, so that children fall in love with learning in a subtle way. The process of educating children is actually a process of parents' self-improvement, and adults also have many shortcomings. In order to educate future generations, we strive to correct our behavior and constantly improve ourselves. Adults' words and deeds will inadvertently attract the attention of children, and then imitate and try. Therefore, parents should set an example and start from themselves. At ordinary times, we should set an example for our children and let them develop morally and intellectually healthily.
I hope I can try my best to cooperate with the education of the school and cultivate him into a man with strong perseverance and love, which can make him develop healthily physically and mentally.
Watching children grow up day by day, they begin to have their own thoughts and opinions. I think parents should understand and respect their children while educating them, treat them with a normal heart and let them grow sturdily. When I left the baby with you and the kindergarten, he came back from the kindergarten? Good mother, aunt, mother-in-law and sister? Since then, he has more people who love him in this world. On the road of children's future growth, parents will feel that some people are holding his other hand, and our parents are really happy and at ease! Here, I would like to thank the teachers of Fuxing Kindergarten for their concern and cultivation of children. You moisten their young hearts with amiable attitude and highly responsible spirit. I would like to express my heartfelt thanks to the park leaders and all the teachers!
My family education story:
Parents are children's first teachers and role models. If school education is left-handed, then family education is right-handed. Only when the left arm and the right arm are opened together can the child's education be held up. If the child is a young eagle, school education can cultivate one wing of the child, and family education can cultivate the other wing, so that our child can fly. Taking this opportunity, I would like to talk about some thoughts on family education outside school education, and summarize the following points to communicate with you.
1. Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My children sometimes hear him say: It's so hard, I can't learn, I don't participate, I can't do well, and others will laugh at me and other negative languages. To this end, we told him many stories about the growth of celebrities and asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up. He said: When archaeologists and explorers wanted to see the pyramids in Egypt and go to Disneyland in the United States, we told him that archaeologists and explorers needed a lot of knowledge. Chinese and mathematics are the foundation. What if you don't know the language when you go abroad? So he felt that he had to study to realize his wish. At the same time, in the process of learning, we try to apply the content of learning to life and games, which makes him feel a lot of fun. Every time he makes progress, we will praise him: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make him happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage him to say: I believe I will do better next time. Respect and guide children's interests, and constantly encourage children. When children have interest and confidence, it will become easy to learn anything.
2. Actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education. It is reasonable for the school to require parents to sign every day. This is an effective way to supervise and understand children and an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of the school's arrangement, learning content, learning progress, children's performance in school, what they have done well and what they have not done well, and will strictly supervise and assist their children to complete their homework, carefully check the completion, help their children check the missing parts, and explain to them what they don't understand, so that they can make mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell him to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell him why it is not good and what to do in the future. Playfulness is the nature of children, especially boys, and needs constant supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, carefully completing homework, thinking independently, asking questions diligently, and firmly mastering what they have learned.
3. Insist on after-school study and constantly expand knowledge.
In addition to school homework, we also sign up our children for painting study. Persist in studying every weekend, children are very interested, and their learning progress is rapid. Children like listening to stories. After grade one, we let him read by himself. I borrowed some reading materials from the library, starting with what children are interested in, which can improve his reading interest. I sometimes take him to the library during holidays and find that he likes it very much. It's good to read this book and that one. Taking children to the library can increase a lot of knowledge. Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. As the ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you won't reach a thousand miles, and if you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
4. Create a good learning atmosphere in the family.
We also need to keep learning at work. We all like studying at home and can persist for a long time. Regardless of book knowledge or network knowledge, we consciously create a strong learning atmosphere at home, so that children fall in love with learning in a subtle way. The process of educating children is actually a process of parents' self-improvement, and adults also have many shortcomings. In order to educate future generations, we strive to correct our behavior and constantly improve ourselves. Adults' words and deeds will inadvertently attract the attention of children, and then imitate and try. Therefore, parents should set an example and start from themselves. At ordinary times, we should set an example for our children and let them develop morally and intellectually healthily.
I hope I can try my best to cooperate with the education of the school and cultivate him into a man with strong perseverance and love, which can make him develop healthily physically and mentally.
Watching children grow up day by day, they begin to have their own thoughts and opinions. I think parents should understand and respect their children while educating them, treat them with a normal heart, and let them thrive and become good citizens.
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