As a woman, are you physically and mentally exhausted and anxious because of a chicken feather in your work and life? Always envy those elegant and calm outstanding women?
Compared with other women, do you always feel that life is unfair to you? Marriage is not satisfactory, work is heavy, fortune is thin, life is bitter ... everything is not smooth, and troubles are everywhere?
As a woman, are you eager to get out of the mire of life and live an elegant and wonderful life? Then how should you change to realize your dream?
Women want to live a quiet and elegant life from the inside out, which has nothing to do with money, status and power. This is an inner cultivation that goes deep into the bone marrow and has a natural charm in daily life.
Today, I will take you to read the book "Jiang Yang's Calmness is Elegance". I hope you can find the answer from the book. This book describes the virtuous and virtuous, brilliant and elegant, optimistic and strong in adversity, and Yang Jian who grew up in suffering, all of which can not be separated from the education and influence of her parents who came from a noble family. I hope that by sharing the wonderful life of spiritual aristocratic women, more women can realize their wisdom and charm, thus gaining strength, stepping out of the fog of the soul and bravely writing their own life chapters.
Liu Ying, the author of Poetry Culture, likes classical poetry, especially the countryside and customs, with beautiful words and deep feelings. Many works have been signed and will be on the shelves soon.
Well, after introducing the basic situation of this book and the author's brief introduction, let me tell you the contents of this book in detail.
Next, I will show you a real Jiang Yang from three aspects:
In the first aspect, how is an elegant and calm woman tempered? (in the book 1 and chapter 4)
The second aspect is how to cultivate a perfect marriage. (Chapters 2 and 3 of this book)
The third aspect is optimism after the baptism of wind and rain. (Chapters 5 and 6 in the book)
How was the first elegant and calm woman tempered?
Today, we will share the first part: How is an elegant and calm woman tempered? Mainly from three aspects to interpret.
These three aspects are: the influence of family background on Jiang Yang; It's never too old to learn and be the best you can be; In troubled times, you can be calm and elegant. First, let's share the first part: the influence of family of origin on Jiang Yang.
First, the influence of family background on Jiang Yang.
Mr Jiang Yang was born in a warm and scholarly family in a southern town. His father is strict and his mother is kind. When I was a child, my father got typhoid fever because of choking shrimp, and there was nothing Chinese medicine could do. The storm almost destroyed Jiang Yang's home, and the atmosphere at home was sad and sad. Because of my mother's persistence and not giving up, I finally snatched my father back from the hands of death through the medicine prescribed by an excellent Chinese doctor.
Her mother saved her father's life with her persistence and love, which was deeply engraved in Jiang Yang's heart. She understood that everyone has a pair of armor of love, which wraps the people we love with courage and tenacity. As long as there is love, miracles can be created.
Jiang Yang's father is an educated man, and he has a deep influence on Jiang Yang. When Jiang Yang was eight and a half years old, she made the first decision in her life-to go to Qi Ming Girls' School and start a new life. This clean and pure place gave her the truest, purest and most lasting belief, and also cultivated her strong desire for knowledge and exploration, which influenced her life.
Jiang Yang's father loved her deeply, but his love was not indulgent. The education and guidance for her in reading made Jiang Yang know how to cherish. If Jiang Yang doesn't read it for a long time, the books on the table will disappear. This treasure is rooted in her bones, such as reading, feelings, work, study, life and so on.
The education and influence of parents planted the seeds of loving reading in Jiang Yang's young mind. Parents' words and deeds taught Jiang Yang how to cherish and persist, how to love and face difficulties. This has become Jiang Yang's philosophy of life and precious wealth in her life.
Many ordinary women have no family background, enlightened parents and extraordinary abilities. As an ordinary person, you will gradually understand that life is not satisfactory, but it is most important to face it frankly and be yourself.
No one can change the environment brought by family background, but there are always some ways to change the feeling of life.
We can create our own spiritual world through our own efforts under limited conditions. Let the soul be rich and the life be rich.
Second, it's never too old to learn and be the best you can be.
Influenced by his father, Jiang Yang liked books since childhood.
Reading is a great hobby of Jiang Yang. Once, Yang Yinhang asked her, "Aji, I won't let you read for three days. What about you? " When Jiang Yang heard his father ask, he replied, "It's hard." Yang Yinhang asked again, "Why don't you study for a week?" "A week has been wasted." In Jiang Yang's view, the days without reading are boring, and reading has become an unshakable belief in Jiang Yang's life.
Jiang Yang's habit of studying since childhood has become her lifelong career. Jiang Yang studied in Suzhou University, Tsinghua University and Oxford University, and spent most of his time in the library except for completing courses. She lives a minimalist life, but she never skimps on books.
Time is limited. After marriage, Jiang Yang and his wife spend too much time on reading, and naturally there will be omissions in other things. There are many misunderstandings about them. In this respect, Jiang Yang and his wife never argue. Comparatively speaking, they prefer to spend their time arguing about reading. Without books, everything is deserted. It is very appropriate to use these eight words to describe Mr. and Mrs. Jiang Yang.
It's never too late to learn. Jiang Yang takes reading as his career and sticks to it all his life. The books she has worked hard to read have already melted into her soul, shaped her character, precipitated wisdom and emotion, and made her speak freely.
In real life, women are easily killed by trivial matters of daily necessities, but to change themselves, they must read more books.
San Mao said, "If you read more, your appearance will naturally change." Not long ago, the host Dong Qing went on a hot search. On the CCTV program, Dong Qing wore a pink plaid coat and held a book in his hand. Dong Qing in the program is as dignified and generous as ever. The reason why she has such a good temperament at the age of 45 is inseparable from her reading habits.
Women who love reading have shielded most of the troubles in ordinary people's lives in the process of reading.
If you want to be an elegant woman, start with reading.
Third, practice the calmness and elegance in troubled times.
All Jiang Yang's success can't be separated from her lifelong love of reading.
When Jiang Yang was born, China was in a period of internal and external troubles, war and ten years of turmoil. Influenced by her father Yang Yinhang's indifference, preciseness and wisdom, she remained calm even in troubled times.
Jiang Yang was the most important official in her life. During the period of national unrest, with the strong recommendation of Mr. Yu Ji, she served as the principal of Zhenhua Middle School Shanghai Branch. She has never been interested in politics in her life. Jiang Yang, who has never been an official, will probably succeed as principal this time.
The war made the years turbulent, and many troupes came into being. Facing a completely unfamiliar field, Jiang Yang worked hard and never gave up when encountering difficulties. Jiang Yang from "Satisfy Your Desire" to "Confuse the True with the False" was a blockbuster and became a classic in China drama circle. She described all kinds of human beings in the real world, recorded her success footprint, and the persistence and unyielding behind her success.
Jiang Yang devoted his life to study. Tang Jike De, which she spent most of her life translating, went through the "Cultural Revolution" 10 years and was finally published after many twists and turns. So far, it is recognized as the best translation.
A strong heart can fly against the wind and live a wonderful life. This is the inspiration of Jiang Yang's life in a hundred years, and it also helps us to understand the two most valuable words in the world, one is seriousness and the other is persistence. Being serious and persistent is a process that makes your mind strong.
When everything goes wrong, if you want to usher in a turning point in life, you must make yourself strong inside. Being strong inside is the key to getting out of the bottom of life.
So how can we ordinary people make our hearts strong? Whether the inner spiritual world is vast or not determines whether the inner strength is strong or not. Insist on reading more, studying more, feeling more about life and improving your competitiveness. You are excellent and naturally strong inside.
Speaking of which, let's call it a day Let's briefly summarize today's content.
First of all, we talked about Jiang Yang's wisdom in life over the past hundred years, which is inseparable from his parents' example. Good family background, enlightened education methods and parents' words and deeds have great influence on Jiang Yang's life, literary attainments and strong character.
Secondly, we mentioned that she loves reading, and her persistence and dedication are inseparable from her success. Books have given her rich knowledge and enriched her soul. Rich reading laid a literary foundation for her persistence. Her success stems from her habit of reading.
Finally, we mentioned that she was tempered and plump in adversity and achieved her best self. During the war, Jiang Yang wrote comedies. During the Cultural Revolution, Jiang Yang began to translate Don Quixote, which was published after many twists and turns. Jiang Yang's success in suffering and tempering is related to her calm attitude towards life after the ups and downs of her life.
So, today's sharing is over. We learned about Jiang Yang's growing experience as a model of elegant women. I wonder if you have gained anything after listening to this lesson. Tomorrow we will discuss it in three parts. How is the perfect marriage in Jiang Yang formed? What enlightenment will her perfect marriage give us?
This is ... we will continue to interpret it for you tomorrow. See you tomorrow.