Family education can not be ignored if children want to make continuous progress and achieve the goals expected by their parents, and parents' psychological encouragement is a golden key to tap their potential, enlighten their wisdom and cultivate their normal development and rapid growth. In motivating children, I think parents can start with ideals, behaviors, concerns and interests.

Ideal and goal motivation. Parents should design big goals for their children according to their conditions and specialties, always encourage their children to work hard to realize their ideals and constantly increase their motivation. Of course, ideal motivation should pay special attention to the formation education of world outlook and outlook on life, overcome the influence of fame and fortune, establish ideals, help children set appropriate small goals step by step, and promote them to achieve big goals.

Behavior and role model motivation. "example is better than words", parents should influence their children with their exemplary behavior; Inspire and motivate children with positive teaching; Care and care for children with full love. Parents should also often provide some story education of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign celebrities to motivate their children and let them learn from them. They can also take the children with excellent academic performance in the neighborhood as their role models and encourage them to look up to them.

Care, praise and encouragement. Parents should not only care about their children in life, but also care about their children mentally and psychologically, not only in the cultivation and development of intellectual factors, but also in the formation and encouragement of non-intellectual factors. In particular, let children understand that the strict requirements of parents are out of responsibility and concern for his future, and they are true love for him. In family education, every little progress of children should be affirmed, praised and encouraged in time. Especially when children are frustrated, we should persuade them from the front to help them analyze the causes of failure, set a new starting point and catch up.

Motivation and interest motivation. Encourage children to actively participate in some beneficial social activities and competitions, actively create conditions for children, and pay special attention to intellectual investment. Cultivating interest is another important factor in learning success. It is necessary to stimulate children's interest in learning from learning conditions, environment, psychological factors and other aspects, so that the source of living water comes every day, the cultivation of special skills, especially the encouragement of interest, generates a strong impetus.