The pace of life is getting faster and faster, and many young parents have no time to take care of their children, so they will choose to give them to their parents. Because most middle-aged people are now in their forties, they have more energy to take care of a child, are good at taking care of children, and like taking care of children. However, there are indeed many hidden dangers in letting the elderly take care of their children. Today, Bian Xiao wants to talk to you about what you should pay attention to if you let your family take care of your children.

Today is different from the past, because the two generations have different lifestyles and different growth environments, and there may be some differences between many older children. For example, many old people will believe in some indigenous methods such as wearing leggings for children, so that children will not have O-legs when they grow up. This is completely wrong. Moreover, many old people like to let their children sleep with their heads flat, which makes them look good. If there are such differences in daily life, we must communicate with the old man and tell him what is right and wrong. Never order to quarrel with the old man.

Overindulgence of several generations of parents Our generation will get a pension after retirement, so the money is still relatively rich, and your baby may want something because he is relatively small and has no self-control ability. At this time, his parents will be more accustomed to children buying a lot of things for their children, or on some food. I didn't hesitate to buy it for my children, but I didn't know that such doting would also make them develop into wild and unreasonable, dislike sharing with others, and condescend to everyone. If you tell him something, he will think you are fierce, and he will tell his grandparents or grandparents. It can be said that he gave birth to a bully.

When parents are old, they have to pick up their children. We should also pay attention to such things. If they need to take their children to school, their elderly parents will also increase a lot of dangers on the road. Although many elderly people can drive, can they really rest assured when they get there? Especially when children are out of school, it is still dangerous to think about it during peak hours. Many grandmothers or grandmothers will choose to pick up their grandchildren on foot, so it is difficult to avoid any danger on the road. Therefore, if the family is far away from the kindergarten, Bian Xiao advises parents not to pick up their children. You can try to squeeze out some time to pick up the children yourself, or many schools will have special school buses to pick up the children.