Listening is a process of acceptance, analysis, understanding and sharing. Only people with strong listening ability can have good interpersonal relationships and communicate and cooperate with others. Change the way you react, and you will find that your child has also made some changes. Sometimes, it is difficult for many children to change what they are doing. Especially when children don't want to listen to you, you should listen to their explanations patiently. Then tell me what you think. This is reasoning and listening. When you encounter some problems, you will certainly think of using "dialogue" to solve them.
Listening to others is a virtue that children must possess. If children want to get along with others, there is no problem in communication. They must first learn to listen. Listening to others is not only a process of listening, but also a process of learning. Students who don't listen are students who can't learn. In the process of listening to others, children can learn some knowledge they don't know, as well as other people's attitudes and principles. Let children learn to listen. As parents, we should really put down our bodies, put down our busy things, seriously accompany our children and repeat these things every day.
Many people don't know how to understand what others say all their lives. The reason is that we always like to proceed from our own position and ignore each other's position. When parents listen to their children, they must keep their posture straight. On the surface, they don't have to pretend to listen, but in fact they are trying to refute it. They completely ignored the children's feelings. Listening is not just listening. I remember when I was a child, the teacher often said that some people went from one ear to the other, but actually they had hearing problems.