First of all, you have made a big mistake as a parent, that is, you always think that children are children. In fact, children are already adults in the third grade. To treat children as adults, your thoughts should be fundamentally changed. Secondly, it can be said that whether you are a boy or a girl, the third grade is a typical adolescence, and measures should be taken according to the characteristics of adolescent men and women when educating.

1, adolescent boys and girls have a sense of privacy protection, and their diaries and homework may not be seen by their parents, in order to protect personal privacy; So don't be surprised when it objects to your "checking homework".

2. Adolescent boys and girls are rebellious. The more you think what is right, the more he or she may think what is wrong.

Adolescent boys and girls still have many characteristics (such as puppy love, etc. ), which needs your summary and observation.

The method I want to tell you is (of course, not brilliant):

1, the child has grown into an adult, at least a little adult, you should treat it as an adult; For example, you can put down your parents' airs and treat them as friends.

2. Communicate with him or her more, study as much as possible in daily life and study, and let adults and children understand each other;

3. The learning style of junior three students is also different from the original, which is the so-called "whether it is management". It means that students can learn to study independently, and teachers and parents can teach him or her learning methods, so that he or she can learn to think, summarize and innovate with his or her own head. Parents can watch or not watch the homework that the teacher wants to see, but "watching" is not "checking", but helping to check as a friend. If he (she) is investigated, he (she) will definitely resent it.

My child is in the third grade and has the same troubles as you, but I believe that with his or her growth, the troubles will always be solved. May he (she) get better and better.

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