When children are young, they are full of inseparable dependence and attachment to their parents and family. However, when children grow up, the family relationship between children and parents seems to have suddenly changed greatly under the influence of many factors such as parents' education methods and children's growth environment. This paper will discuss in depth what mistakes parents made in educating their children, and help parents better understand their children's needs.

Lack of respect

Some parents simply don't allow their children to have any ideas and autonomy, so it's easy to ignore all kinds of puzzles and troubles in their study and life.

High expectations

After I got married and had children, I unexpectedly held expectations and hopes for my children far beyond my ability. In the final analysis, it is because there are too many parents who want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed, and their thoughts are particularly stubborn.

There is something wrong with the way of education

My child will never be the one who was eliminated by academic education and had to receive vocational education. It can be said that there are too many educational problems and family conflicts, which are contradictions between parents' high expectations and children's dull intelligence.

The learning environment is not good

Accompanying children to do homework and even guiding them to study absolutely requires wisdom and skills. At the very least, in the process of accompanying children to write homework, parents should keep close to each other, so that children can answer questions at the first time, and will not interfere with their learning status because children play mobile phones and games.