In the "guilty" education, parents always emphasize their hard work and efforts in educating their children. The implication is that parents don't have to work so hard for their children. This idea is a bit "fake". At first, parents won't take it seriously, but over time, parents will become more and more serious.

In this way, parents use their own efforts and sacrifices to "kidnap" their children's feelings and coerce them to become obedient.

Children grow up in such an environment. When they were young, when they faced their parents, they didn't know what their parents said was the real family. When their parents complain to themselves, they will think that everything they say is right. It is because of themselves that their parents live such a hard life.

As they grow up, they will trust their parents' opinions more and more, and their sense of guilt will increase. Whether in study or in life, they will take listening to their parents as compensation for their sacrifice, so that children can live not for themselves, but for their parents.

Of course, guilt-based education will also produce another result. When children are young, they passively accept this concept. Children with self-awareness will doubt their parents' words and even understand the truth of this kind of education. Some children are angry and angry at their parents' "lies", especially in adolescence, children will become more and more rebellious, rebel and get rid of their parents because of their parents' education. During this period, the relationship between parents and children will become more and more tense because of guilty education.

"Guilty" education is by no means suitable for children. In the process of children's growth, parents should pay attention to it and put an end to it. First of all, parents should learn more about parenting and change their parenting concepts. Guilty education is a part of the traditional educational concept, and now it is a wrong educational concept, which should be eliminated in time.