Self-knowledge is knowing your emotions. Parents should cultivate their children to know their different emotions clearly from an early age. It is a good way for parents to spend some time talking with their children every day and guide them to tell their feelings frankly.

2. Cultivate children's self-control

If something goes wrong, you will easily get angry and get angry, which is a sign of low emotional intelligence. This will not only make people lose their minds and make correct judgments calmly, but also lead to diseases such as hypertension and cancer over time. Parents want their children to know how to control anger and mood swings, but also know how to control themselves and anger, and know how to "take a step back."

3. Cultivate children's freedom

Every child has his unique potential and talent, such as sports, language, music and so on. Parents should help their children find out what they are good at and cultivate them well. In this way, letting children play their strengths can make him affirm the value and significance of his existence, and then motivate himself to move towards higher goals. However, while cultivating children with care, don't put too much pressure on them. Children under pressure are easily hurt physically and mentally. Parents should teach their children to face adversity and failure.

4. Cultivate children's self-confidence

Children's self-confidence can not be built overnight, but depends on long-term cultivation and accumulation. When children make progress in their studies or perform well in other aspects, parents can give them appropriate praise to encourage them to work harder and strive for greater progress.

5. Cultivate children's self-esteem

Children should respect themselves, and parents should respect their children first. If a child has some behaviors or performances that make his parents dissatisfied, parents should not criticize him mercilessly. But to give them patient guidance and guidance, so that they can feel that their parents still care about and love them. Many parents inadvertently scold or even punish their children in front of relatives and friends, which will make them lose their self-esteem, destroy their parent-child feelings and even make them feel inferior.