Some parents think it is their duty to send their children to school. Once their children enter school, parents will rest assured that the responsibility of education is entirely on the teacher, thinking that educating children is only a school matter, which is very wrong. A qualified parent should be responsible for the education of his children. Remember: parents are children's first teachers, and parents are children's lifelong teachers. It is true that the school is a leading, planned, organized and purposeful educational place, which plays a leading role in cultivating talents. However, school education must have the correct cooperation of parents. Only in this way can we improve the quality of education and achieve the best educational effect. Secondly, for junior students, most of the time is spent at home. There are many students in the school, and teachers' energy and time can't be compared with parents. On the other hand, school education cannot play an effective role without the support, cooperation and strengthening of parents; Thirdly, due to the inherent kinship, emotion and ethical relationship between parents and children, parents' words and deeds directly affect the effect of school education. Therefore, it is especially necessary for parents to cooperate actively, actively and correctly in educating the only child in the lower grades of primary schools.
2. Several misunderstandings in family education
1, overprotective. An only child, you hold in your hand, stick it on your chest and put it in your mouth, but do everything. Let children know that when they grow up, they are already primary school students. Their life and study can't depend entirely on their parents and teachers. They should do what they can and find ways to solve problems and difficulties themselves. Take part in some hard work, learn some simple labor skills, know how to open and close doors and windows, sweep the floor, clean tables and chairs, etc. Cultivate children's self-care ability, gradually reduce the care of parents or other adults, and gradually cultivate children's ability to live independently. In this regard, we should do a good job for the elderly.
2. Overindulgence. Nowadays, children are all little emperors and princesses at home. Parents often know that it is unreasonable, but they can't stand their children crying, and they can only rely on him in everything, which leads to the phenomenon that children are self-centered and grow up in a deformed environment. All parents think that their children are good, and mistakes are accidental. But after entering the school, there are constraints and pressures. Perhaps children will encounter some setbacks and criticisms during their growth. As parents, children's unreasonable behavior should be criticized. Experts often remind parents: "Please don't forget that the teacher is not in charge of a child."
3. High expectations. Parents want their children to be born in phoenix and strive to be the first in everything. The wish is good, but parents should be reminded that the next exam 100 is impossible, as long as the children work hard. Third, we should cooperate with schools to educate children.
1, we must first understand the requirements of schools and classes for students. Only by understanding the requirements of the school for students can we better cooperate with the school to educate children and achieve the best educational effect.
2. To cooperate with the school, you must really know your children.
(1) Talk and communicate with children more, and understand their ideological context.
(2) Ask the children's classmates and teachers about their performance at school.
3. In cooperation with schools, we must pay attention to maintaining the prestige of teachers.
We found that some parents resisted the teacher and talked about the teacher in front of their children. As the saying goes: learn from your teacher and believe in it. Teachers must have their own imperfections. Parents can give advice to teachers in private, but don't damage the image of teachers. I think it is best for parents and teachers to be friends. When a child has a problem, parents should first think about what they have failed to do, don't put all the blame on the teacher, discuss the solution with the teacher and put themselves in the teacher's shoes. They should think of other children in the class and understand the teacher's hard work. What's more, the teacher has only faced your child for a few years. Once your child fails in education, you will face your child for life.
Especially the parents of some children in lower grades care about their children, even if they are a child, many people love them, and more people pay attention to their teachers. Talking about teachers has become a topic of conversation for some parents, and sometimes they will casually comment on teachers in front of their children. Teachers are the people that junior high school students respect and admire most. The image of teachers is the most perfect in their minds. They listen to their words and imitate their words and deeds, which is a crucial period for shaping students' souls. At this time, primary school students are emotionally unstable. If the image of the teacher is destroyed and the prestige of the teacher is reduced, who can the students listen to and worship if they don't listen to the teacher? The correct way is: don't talk about teachers, especially their shortcomings, in front of children. Parents should guide their children to correctly evaluate teachers, let them see the advantages of teachers, enlarge the advantages of teachers and narrow the disadvantages. Of course, gold alone is not enough, and no one is perfect. Teachers should point out their shortcomings and pay attention to their methods. This is the best cooperation. No matter how good the cooperation is, the teacher's prestige cannot be established.
4. Cooperate with schools to cultivate children's sense of collective honor and selflessness.
Parents should actively support the school's educational activities, educate students and always think about the class and the school. Work closely with teachers to educate children together. Don't think it doesn't matter if the child is young. How can we cultivate children's sense of collective honor? The correct way should be positive guidance, educate children not to be discouraged, find reasons, and let children have the confidence to win glory for the class in the next activities, otherwise they will become insensitive, do not strive for progress, and lose their sense of collective honor. Affect the formation of a good class spirit, which is not conducive to the growth of children.
5. Cooperate with the school to cultivate children's good study habits.
Parents can "remotely" supervise children with strong awareness; For children with poor consciousness, parents should come to the "scene" in person to help them; Parents should keep up with active and unconscious children; Children with ADHD should be accompanied by their parents until ADHD gets better. In short, the supervision of students' learning should be implemented, and they should not just ask questions, thinking that teachers will have a way if they fail to finish well. Over time, students not only fail to learn well, but also develop many bad habits, which will be brought to school at home. In view of this situation, parents should consciously encourage their children to develop a good character from beginning to end and stick to it in their studies and work. Parents should also create a good and quiet learning environment for their children, create a rich learning atmosphere, and give full play to the power of parents' role models. Parents who are busy with business, work and socializing all day have no time to take care of their children's studies, let alone closely contact and actively cooperate with the school. For the growth of children, parents should be willing to spend some time with their children.
6. To cooperate with the school, it is necessary to build a bridge of communication.
To achieve correct cooperation, parents should keep close contact with teachers, discuss children's education with teachers, listen to teachers' opinions and demands on family cooperative education with an open mind, and cooperate with teachers in the family. At ordinary times, children at home should also get in touch with teachers in time to exchange views so that schools and families can cooperate with education. In addition, parents should have confidence and patience in cooperating with education. Parents should constantly improve their self-cultivation and learn and master some theories and methods of educating their children. Parents and parents should also do a good job of unity and put the interests of the class first.
7. Cooperate with schools to strengthen safety education.
The safety work of students is related to social stability and family happiness, to the normal education and teaching order of schools, and to the top priority of thousands of families. Our school attaches great importance to and implements safety education. In order to ensure the normal education and teaching order of the school and the safety of students' lives, parents have the responsibility to actively cooperate. If the child has any special physical condition, he should tell the teacher in time. Strengthen the safety education for children in transportation, walking, eating, using fire and electricity, preventing bad guys, and inside and outside the school.
Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of parents. The ancients said that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach" and "it is the teacher's laziness to teach but not strictly". In order to cultivate children into useful people, schools and families have great responsibilities. Only when parents attach importance to and do a good job in educating their children in cooperation with schools can they cultivate their children into modern talents useful to the motherland.