I still remember being beaten by my father when I was a child. I was very naughty when I was a child. I can play with my brother (aunt's child) once. I put my brother outside the door, and my father slapped me and cried in pain. My father shouted "Don't cry"! The mood at that time can be imagined, and I was very afraid of beating and scolding and educating myself with sticks. I have been beaten many times, and I have gradually become naughty and not afraid of pain. I even yelled at my father several times, "Just hit me and kill me!" ! It is also a kind of vocal resistance. I am more and more naughty and rebellious under the guidance of a stick. Of course, I am also afraid of my father. It is impossible to open your heart to your father and tell the truth. I don't even want to talk to my father. I still remember that once my brother was punished and he jumped off the wall and ran away. It was dark at that time and it was very cold in winter. Dad and grandma went out for a long time at night, thinking that they regretted their behavior. Even if they regret it, they choose "stick" to educate their children, because stick education is simple and rude, which can quickly stop children's behavior, but oral preaching is not something that every parent can do, especially our parents' generation, who have not received so much education and have not had so much patience to educate us! Now, it's your turn to educate your children. Is it also "stick education"? At first, I didn't want to educate my children with stick education, because I knew the harm and influence behind stick education, so I was willing to educate my children in a gentle and effective way, instead of shouting and fighting! However, with the children getting older and more naughty, I also chose "sticks" to beat and scold, and I also saw the scene that children were afraid of me for a while. I chose to beat and scold because of his disobedience, and beat and scold because of his naughty behavior. I know my behavior is not good, but I still continue to regret it again and again. . . When I saw my child's frightened eyes, even smiled unhappily and didn't want to hug myself, I knew that my behavior had hurt my child. If my child is older, he will definitely lock up his inner feelings and won't choose to tell me, so I have to change. If I don't change, I must get rid of the habit of beating and scolding children, because I want a happy child, a child who can be close to me and even become friends, and the child can have no scruples. Children never hold grudges. When his mother became gentle, the children's smiling faces became more and more. When mother becomes gentle, she will find that her temper is not so bad. Many times, her temper can be stopped, and she seems to be much more patient. When the child is naughty again, she will see the child's progress and think of the exploration spirit that a child of this age should have, and should not stop her. . .