The first word is "pain". Men must love women and meet the psychological needs of women and young women. Women seem to be born to be cared for by men. The word "An" means that Bao Gai gave birth to a woman. Women long for men to be mountains or trees to shelter them from the wind and rain, and she is a naive girl, more beautiful. Isabella Chow said that a mature man can let his beloved woman jump into his arms when he is wronged and cry like a baby.
The second word is "good". Be a good son of a wife and meet the psychological needs of women's maternal love. When our mother was white-haired, it was our wife who took over the baton of maternal love, took care of our diet, accepted our shortcomings and regrets, and supported us unconditionally. Be good, don't argue with your wife over trifles, be obedient, behave yourself and don't make trouble.
The third word is "Fu". A wife must admire her husband and satisfy his psychological needs. Men seem to be born to be envied by women. The admiration of his wife is the driving force of his husband's progress, inspiring him to become a man with indomitable spirit. According to the survey, Wenzhou's business is doing very well, because Wenzhou's wife worships her husband very much and loves him even if she goes bankrupt. The wound heals and recovers quickly, and she makes a comeback. A wife should listen to her husband, give face in public, and settle accounts at home.
The fourth word is jiao. Women must be attractive. Exquisite and delicate flowers make people feel pity, which is suitable for IKEA to arouse men's desire for protection and meet the psychological needs of men's fatherly love. Too rough and strong, making men feel unwanted and don't need help. Lions roar, outbursts of anger and deep-rooted resentment will scare away men. Chen Jiao is the constraint of softness and interest. Isabella Chow said: It's like a lyric saying, "Pat me gently with that whip." If it is heavy, it will be black and blue.
The formula of "pain, obedience, obedience and femininity" is complementary to each other, and it is a way for couples to get along with each other with love and appreciation.
Everyone has become a part of the social machine, involuntarily, running at high speed and exhausted. The cruel competition mechanism forces people to avoid the elimination of the weak, keep forging ahead and strive for strength and competitiveness. It has not become an essential quality, but also a potential psychological, work challenges, family crisis, and the tension that permeates the bone marrow, which makes women exhausted. When you need to care most, it is often ignored. The quietness and gentleness of women disappear under the mask of skill and tenacity. When women are arrogant, men are more selfish and don't like taking responsibility. Husband and wife don't trust each other, they can't trust each other, and even the last warmth is gone.
Wouldn't it be sad if couples are too busy to pay attention to nourishing each other? What if there is more money? A relaxed, happy, warm and peaceful family atmosphere is conducive to the healthy growth of children's body and mind. Pull yourself out, stop, let complicated thoughts precipitate, calm down, be quiet and wise, be quiet and far-reaching. God's traction makes the confused and ignorant people detached. Fearing God and attaching importance to morality will make us indifferent and firm, clear and peaceful, and make us choose between advance and retreat.
In the past, China's wedding ceremony had to worship heaven and earth, parents and husband and wife, which was solemn and profound. Husband and wife live together day and night, and they are intimate. Over time, the glory faded, and the shortcomings of the other party were clear at a glance, from looking up to looking down. Stumbling, undisciplined and bohemian, export hurts people, a vicious circle. Respect is indispensable. Respecting your partner is also respecting yourself. Respect can produce respect, and there are good ideas and possibilities.
No wonder in ancient times, respect and obedience were regarded as the greatest courtesy of women. Gentle and honest, considerate, tolerant and considerate, diligent and virtuous are valuable qualities of a wife. The world of mortals can't disturb her, so she is calm and keeps her promise. The years are brewing, the fragrance is floating, and the voice, face and smile are warm and soft. Make a good foundation, don't forget the foundation, it is the realm, you are as stupid as a fool!
Husband and wife need wisdom and good habits to get along. I feel more and more that the ancient teachings of the sages are right, so we should keep them in mind, start from scratch, persevere, get used to nature, and turn them into warm spring breeze and stable power.