Self-discipline is a very important thing. No matter how busy parents are, children should arrange their own life and study, especially after they grow up and become independent. Next, I will sort out how parents educate their children to learn self-discipline. I hope you like it!
Making rules is the cornerstone of children's self-discipline ability.
Rules are very important. The ancients often said, "State-owned laws, family rules." It is quite difficult for young children to control themselves. If they are hungry, they have to eat. If they don't eat, they will cry. They always talk about watching TV for a while, which often lasts for hours. When you want to eat ice cream or candy, you will say, "I only eat a little." This little bit is often left after eating.
At this time, parents' guidance is very needed, and rules are urgently needed.
When making rules, children are required to strictly abide by them. Of course, adults should set an example by saying that watching TV for half an hour is only half an hour. It is certain that children cry, but we should not compromise just because children cry, which will give children a hint that crying is the most effective weapon.
Children must understand from an early age that since the rules are formulated, they must implement them, and then slowly cultivate their own awareness of the rules.
Encourage children to do what they can, and never replace them. Don't break the child's self-management.
Now most parents may be only children, so for children, in big cases, it is 6 pairs 1, that is, 6 adults take care of one child.
In this environment, parents are likely to take too much care of their children and arrange everything for them from an early age. Over time, children will lose their sense of self-management and think that "there are adults to help me solve the problem." Of course, all this will be said before the children go to school. If they go to school, what should they do?
Without your own thinking, everything will be led by others. So what adults can do is to let go slowly, encourage children to do what they like, and encourage children to express their ideas. Only by letting go properly can children learn to walk by themselves as soon as possible and cultivate their sense of independence.
Every self-disciplined child must have self-disciplined parents behind him.
As I said before, parents are busy, so we have been learning from our parents since childhood. We are too busy to discipline ourselves. It can be seen that children will imitate their parents, and every move of parents will have a subtle influence on children.
If parents are self-disciplined, their lives are orderly, their homes are clean and tidy, and they read books whenever they have time, children will get the message, imitate and learn from their parents and become as self-disciplined as their parents.
Parents are children's first teachers, and parents' self-discipline can guide children's self-discipline. The best educational idea is to set an example.
Self-discipline is an indispensable personality force and an important quality that a person must have to achieve higher achievements. It determines whether a child can be successful and happy in his future study and even in his life, which has a very important relationship with his personality.
Self-discipline is the best gesture for children to meet life.
So for the sake of children's future, we must cultivate children's self-discipline. Although this process is painful and long, it is precisely because of this that self-disciplined children will have more possibilities, more opportunities and more success.